Help me
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Topic: Help me
Posted By: bobby
Subject: Help me
Date Posted: 26 September 2014 at 8:45pm
Assalamualaikum,
I have a problem and i can't seem to solve it. It's about a girl. Let me tell you a brief history of this girl. Her name is Aisyah and at first she doesn't wear hijab. When i first saw her, i suddenly cared for her. I didn't like her, i just wanted her to change for good in Allah's way. So i prayed for her after sholah and every moment when i think of her. Until one day, i thought of giving up on her because i don't see the point of praying in something that is not going to happen. I thought it was pointless to pray for someone who doesn't want to change for herself.
Recently, i was shocked to see she wear hijab and changed entirely. I cried of happiness. And the problem is now i like her. And i want to forget her. I really want to forget her. NOW, i can't stop thinking of her.. I prayed to Allah to make me forget about her but it just can't seem to stop. I cried when taubat to Allah because i know it's a sin. Please help me.
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Posted By: NABA
Date Posted: 02 October 2014 at 1:29am
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WALECUM AS SALAAM,do dhikr of Allah, don't think about anybody, no.i will show u a trick how!!! Make it a will to learn 99 names of Allah,take it as a curriculum when u learn 99 names of Allah, try to revise regularly eg when I walk I see cars coming and going and I see their numbers, suppose I see no 1257-so I revise Ya Allah-1, Ya Rehman-2, Ya Quddoos-5, Ya Mumin-7, so what it helps is that u constantly remember Allah and when u learn 99 names always thank Allah, , Alhamdulillah, Allahu Akbar, so In this way u remember Allah most of times.Allah in ch 13 v 28 of Quran says verily heart finds peace in remembrance of Allah, Allah in ch 2 v 152 says if u remember Allah, Allah will remember you.u can do it, if u can mug up ur school courses y not 99 names of Allah which will bring close to Allah.may Allah give u success in this world and hereafter.Ameen.
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Posted By: Onigirice
Date Posted: 26 February 2016 at 10:07am
Fall in love is not a sin :). But, if u control it in bad way like, dating, zina, etc. That is a sin. Truthfully, I'm in love with someone right now. But I can control it, I don't touch him, I don't tell him I love him, I do nothing. Maybe it's a test from Allah. Love is like a train, if she is not ur soulmate, that love will go away. So, just control ur feeling. If she isn't the right person. You'll forget her eventually :)
Hope my answer will be helpful [IMG]smileys/smiley1.gif" align="middle" />
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