keema1 wrote:
As Salaam u Alakium I am dealing with a matter that has caused me a great deal of stress. My ex huband has abanden his 8 month old daughter and moved on with his life. I have been struggling to raise her and I get no help from our local Iman. I have tryed to set up an appointment with him yet he has yet to call me back. I have begun to feel hopeless because my baby does not have a father, he walks around the belivers like he is a good brother but he does nothing for his child. i went through the courts and he still refuses to pay I am losing my faith in Islam and thinking that there has to be a better way. Please if anyone can advise me on this matter I need help!! |
Hi dear,
Don't feel this way. Look at your daughter face and pray with Faith, and you will find the answer. You are already rich because you are not alone, and you have to think about how to go ahead with our life without your husband. Don't stop your life waiting for his help, just start looking for a job, and go ahead alone. Make your self stronger by the work, the love for your child and the Faith.
Lot of people doesn't have any Faith, but at the same time they show everyone that they are the best believers and having the perfect life. It's not happening only to you, but to millions of people, men and women. But Allah/God, He knows who is the good and who isn't good believer, and someone who abandones his family is not, and will have his deserved reward one day. Just go on with your small gift and think that he has already lost the best thing we may get in this life, the children.
All the best and please, be strong in this life and try to be independent. Work hard for yourself and your child.
Regards,
Patricia
------------- No God wants the killing, but the peace.
The weapons are carried by people, not by religions.
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