Love
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Topic: Love
Posted By: Trigger
Subject: Love
Date Posted: 12 July 2010 at 6:18am
| I was wondering if anyone can give ther opinion on this situation, I know about what Allah says about relationships, but I was simply wondering on others opinions from people who are muslims and believe in Allah.I have been seeing a guy for nearly 7 months now and we really care about each other. However, I am chritian and he is muslim which means his parents are unaware of us being together. I can't just end the relationship just because we are from different religions; you can't help who you fall in love with. However, I do feel guilty knowing he shoudn't be with me? |
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Posted By: semar
Date Posted: 12 July 2010 at 7:47pm
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Salam/Peace,
A muslim man can marry a Christian woman. It's OK. So you no need to worry. ------------- Salam/Peace, Semar "We are people who do not eat until we are hungry and do not eat to our fill." (Prophet Muhammad PBUH) "1/3 of your stomach for food, 1/3 for water, 1/3 for air" |
Posted By: martha
Date Posted: 13 July 2010 at 10:11am
Yes, it is true that a muslim man can marry a Christian woman. BUt really, should a muslim man be having a sexual relationship outside marriage? Afraid to say the answer is no. 
------------- some of us are a lot like cement:- all mixed up and permanently set |
Posted By: Trigger
Date Posted: 13 July 2010 at 4:20pm
Thankyou, for both of your answers I didnt realise he could be with a christian girl... I know he shouldn't have a sexual relationship but I am not making him, and if he said to me he didn't want too then I would respect that.  But thankyou all for being honest.
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Posted By: martha
Date Posted: 14 July 2010 at 1:25am
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You're most welcome Trigger.
I hope it works out for you. Just one more pointer for you. A good muslim man will not have sex before marriage. So ask yourself if he is respecting you at all. Sex outside of marriage for muslim men does happen a lot, and many non-muslim girls are left hurt when the man marries a virgin muslim girl. Just be aware of that. Take care of yourself. ANd trust your instincts and keep enquiring her or from other reliable sources. Hugs xx ------------- some of us are a lot like cement:- all mixed up and permanently set |
Posted By: Trigger
Date Posted: 14 July 2010 at 10:27am
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Awhh thankyou, I wasn't expecting everyone to be as understanding about the situation Yeh I understand about the sex thing, and I do get confused about that because he does keep to most of the other practices like ramadan and he's really strict with that....Thanks for the pointer I am aware of that, but I think i'm just going to enjoy being with him and see what happens in the future because he really does look after meeven when i'm stroppy hehe Thankyou again I hope you understand I do appreciate this. x
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