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    Posted: 16 April 2020 at 7:18pm
Salamun Alaikum
My mother is threatneing to hire a hit man to shoot my father if he does not agree with her yelling at me. My father has to continue to agree with her after she yells at us or me. My mother does not say she's going to hire a hit man but I can understand my mother feels like hiring a hit man so he has to agree with her when she yells every day. It seems like if my mother gets upset for no reason like every other day or every day and yells in my mothers voice when she talks to me and my father she makes her voice mean and with other people she talks in a voice that is friendly and if my father disagrees with her kindly she is the big deal thats what she said once.

I want to edit that my mother's name is Carla Rizk

I want to edit she says she will tell her friends what my father is saying to her in response to her meanness. These friends will alert the hitman. If my mother contacts the hitman directly or through a friend is un certain.
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Wa alaikum Salam,
Issues pertaining to physical violence must be referred to law enforcement agencies. It is a serious issue and it should be dealt as such.
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Youssef, assalamu alaikum, You undoubtedly know what makes your mom upset, so I suggest you do what's necessary, like your dad, to make her happy. Once you do this she will speak with you kindly and in a kind voice. Moms have a difficult time managing a household and she needs your cooperation.
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