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    Posted: 15 September 2018 at 12:37pm
Hello everybody

To begin with, me writting this and confessing it are very painful and heavy on my heart.

Iam a 21 years old male, unfortunately i had oral sex with a female i dont know why i could not stop myself from doing it, i wish i could go back with time so i wont do it again.

The problem is i feel like i lost my soul, whats destroying me is deep inside i didnt have that much of regret, so not regretting it makes me angry from my self (if you know what i mean, this cycle. being mad for not regretting it), also, i guess this is because of the pornography i have been watching.

Iam very sad i might have lost my iman and soul, i have been struggling lately with my iman, i even used to pray all the 5 prayers daily but i dont know what happened i cant keep doing this regularly anymore. I feel iam on the edge of losing my faith, i know if i continue like this i will lose it.

I wish i had some one in real life were he/she can understands me and help me.

Help me what should i do ?
Please do not reply " stop watching porn" if it was that easy i would have done it

Lastly, is oral sex considered as zina?

please have Duaa for me
Thanks in advance
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Wa alaikum Salam,
There are many people who have this kind of addiction. It need to be treated by self control and self restraint. If you have a strong will power you can do it. Start changing your habits of sleep and hopefully in a couple of months you will be able to overcome your addiction.
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Assalam Alaikum

I hope this will help
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I'm struggling with this also though I haven't done anything but I feel close and I also have same addiction. I tried fasting but on my off days I just cant stop
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