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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote LeoCasta Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: 19 March 2020 at 1:50pm
I am sorry to read that. You are a very strong and patient man. I can't even imagine what you're feeling. Your sex urge is absolutely normal. Sex is a very important part of any relationship, it simply cannot exist without that. You won't last long without sex. I think that you should try some substances like kamagra kaufen that is going to improve your wife's sexual drive. It looks like the only solution. I hope that it's going to help, friend. Everything is going to be fine, you just have to be patient.
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote MIAW Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: 06 April 2020 at 12:39am
Originally posted by hamzakhan79 hamzakhan79 wrote:

...  My main concern/question was that what is the husband to do while going through such a situation until the matter is resolved. Allah has created man this way; and to curb urges, marriage has been made the solution. But what if the marriage is not the solution for some situation. What then?

Islam, through our prophet Muhammad , has answered all questions and issues that we may encounter in our daily lives. We have been given a very good solution for this particular issue: FASTING

Until the issue is resolved, you need to occupy your mind with other (highly rewarding) pleasures, such as getting closer to Allah SWT and striving to please Him.

This is illustrated in a hadeeth that was narrated by al-Bukhaari (5066) and Muslim (1400) from Ibn Mas‘ood, who said: We were with the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him), young men who had nothing of wealth. The Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) said to us: “O young men, whoever among you can afford it, let him get married, for it is more effective in lowering the gaze and guarding one’s chastity. And whoever cannot afford it should fast, for it will be a shield (restraint) for him.”


A little whisper: Having said this, you must show patience and keep trying gently... but don't ever be tempted to look at other women and compare them to the mother of your children, no matter how pretty and glamorous they seem to be!... remember: Iblis/Satan will always show you that the 'grass is greener on the other side'.

Brother Abuayisha has given some excellent advice above, Jazahullahu Khairan.




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Nooo. I don't like to have a wife that doesn't want to ***** me.  Actually I prefer more to have relationships with a woman that want me and more of that eats me! I really like it when a woman looks on me with a passion and if I gave her green light, she instantly jumped on me. Actually, I thought that my wife would love me soo much, however, we got divorced and have decided to find a new partner who will love us in a way that we don't know how to do. However, a lil later, my wife gave me a tip about the Agency of escort babes of London. She said that there are girls that can teach me a lot about sex. All of those ladies are hot, so I think I should try this chance. How do you think guys?
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Well I am a guy but I would give you oral all night and I have a young naive that would be so tight you would orgasm all night 
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I think your problem is a very common one, and most families break down because of it. The reasons why your wife no longer wants you can be many. Maybe from a psychological point of view she has started to feel a repulsion towards your sexual relations or maybe everything is simpler, and she has a lover. You can never be sure of anything. I think you should discuss this issue and solve the problem together. You can enter this site https://breakupangels.com/page/10/, to have some tips about how you could rebuild your relationship with your wife.
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