Dishonest with husband

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   Should you tel all details of your past to husband if asked? Of course not the big things, the small details. The big things like virginity and how many people you were with, we have to say. But the details of exactly what happened if you truly repented and it's in the past.

Edited by aname00 - 04 May 2016 at 1:19am

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aname00 Members Profile Send Private Message Find Members Posts Add to Buddy List Starter. Joined: 03 May 2016 Location: Antigua And Barbuda Status: Offline Points: 1	Post Options Post Reply Quote aname00 Report Post Thanks(0) Quote Reply Topic: Dishonest with husband Posted: 03 May 2016 at 1:14am
	Should you tel all details of your past to husband if asked? Of course not the big things, the small details. The big things like virginity and how many people you were with, we have to say. But the details of exactly what happened if you truly repented and it's in the past. Edited by aname00 - 04 May 2016 at 1:19am

semar Members Profile Send Private Message Find Members Posts Add to Buddy List Senior Member Male Islam Joined: 11 March 2005 Location: United States Status: Offline Points: 1830	Post Options Post Reply Quote semar Report Post Thanks(0) Quote Reply Posted: 03 May 2016 at 10:01pm
	Salam, I am a man, a husband. So to me past is past. We should see the future. Your mistake in the past is your business with Allah swt, nothing to do with your husband. Just ask forgiveness sincerely to Allah swt (taubatan nashuha). Then move on. Tell the whole story about you in the past, specially the bad one, will not give any benefit to anyone. Honesty, it doesn't meant to tell everything, specially something in the past. Again just ask forgiveness sincerely to Allah swt about your mistake in the past, then move on. Your past is yours not his, the present and future is his, so give him the best.
	Salam/Peace, Semar "We are people who do not eat until we are hungry and do not eat to our fill." (Prophet Muhammad PBUH) "1/3 of your stomach for food, 1/3 for water, 1/3 for air"

Aziza25 Members Profile Send Private Message Find Members Posts Add to Buddy List Newbie Joined: 04 February 2018 Status: Offline Points: 16	Post Options Post Reply Quote Aziza25 Report Post Thanks(0) Quote Reply Posted: 06 February 2018 at 8:34am
	Salam sister, I believe that hiding things from him is simply lying to him and a family shouldn't be based on lies. Just be responsible for what you did and tell him the truth. He has the right to accept or to refuse. I personally believe that if he's a good honest person, god would anyway expose your lies in the future and things might end up much worst