Omg. Really? Marriage conditions

Hello in December of 2015 I will marry a very pious man. He is of high regard in the Islamic community in our city and is a young imam. He is very religious and very intellectual.

However i have a very different background.

I am conservative now but I wasn't always this way. I used to live a very spontaneous life, traveling and hanging with friends, socially outgoing, and lot of people consider me "fun natured" and "light hearted." I was married before and had a child. I am divorced now two years and I'm 3 years older than him. He is 26 im 29. I am attractive and so is this man.

While I'm very religiously serious now I know I am still different than him in many ways. He is more rigid than I. However I am very dutiful and very loyal, and Obediant. I don't have an aggressive personality so don't confuse me for this.

We speak via Skype about marriage expectations and contracts. There is so much blushing and chemistry between us. The funny thing is he actually sought me out for a long long time as in wanting to be engaged and married . We've never touched and won't until after marriage. Upon Skype conversation, One condition I requested was no other wives he agreed. Then he oddly went into a conversation about maybe needing to work in a different country as he has offers for offshore oil companies and I may not be able to go with him and that when he is home he wants physical intimacy once every seven days, and doesn't want kids for three years.

Ok maybe he wants to prepare more for kids. Understand this.

But making a sex schedule/rule I feel hurt, offended, and before marriage undesirable! We aren't robots and I I want to share this intimacy as it is being vulnerable to one another in deep ways and builds bonding.

I don't understand this but I know he has never touched a woman before so maybe he doesn't have exposure and has learned to live with out it. He says he has never watched porn too.

Am I wrong to be offended? He says sex is just body and wants soul intimacy before sex. But sex is bonding too right?

Im so confused. It would seem something so special that he couldn't wait and it I feel masculine for feeling I want it more ! Lol what the heck is going on here