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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote MrsNabil Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: 11 May 2014 at 11:19pm
Also, Hayran, there is an American joke.

The first year of marriage you put a penny in a jar every time you have sex.

Starting the second year, you are to take a penny out of the jar every time you have sex.

By the time you have been married 50 years, you will still have many pennies left.
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote LeoCasta Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: 19 March 2020 at 3:49pm
I think that you both need to see a sex therapist or something like that. Counseling should help. Usually, the problem is in your head. The anxiety is a very big problem, it just doesn't let you focus on that, because you have too much worries. You need to calm down, talk to each other, try some foreplay. If even this won't help, I would recommend you to buy the best generieke levitra, it's cheap and will raise your libido. But be careful, don't mix it with any other substances and don't abuse it.
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I understand you very well. Same here, and I'm still searching for the right solution. It is very important to listen to Allah, brother, he will help
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The Quran gives the solution. You take on a second wife and make sure you don’t stop pursuing and loving your first wife.

You never know, with another wife around her hormones might start to pick up lol.

We cannot judge you, that is for Allah. I’m my opinion if you took on a second wife then this would help restrain your from the immorality that you engaged in with the teacher.

You even have the permission from your first wife to take on a second.

I never could figure out why most Muslims will tell you polygamy is for the rich. There is no passage in the Quran that says you must be rich to have multiple wives.

Love isn’t something you should ever buy or be contingent on how much you can afford.
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I used to hate the idea of polygamy. Then strangely, a Jamaican guy explained to me that in a lot of 3rd world countries there's no welfare system. I remember reading about how poor people could be over 1000 years ago...some not even having sufficient clothes to cover their body. I also know men by nature love to spread their seed and (quite apparently from today's society), lots of women love to help them.

To my understanding Jewish men could have unlimited wives according to the Torah and pagan definitely did their thang. Even today men have lots and lots of girlfriends. Now I see wisdom in it. Most people only look at the part of the story that makes Islam look bad. In reality, Islam just regulated what was already happening and for women in 3rd world countries it really could make life a lot easier.
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Great topic!
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