Confused

Hello Kelly !

Just wanted to pop in and say that 'reverting' for the sake of your boyfriend would be a bad idea.

Infact - warning from a sister . . . stay away from all muslim men who don't practice their religion and just want to date you/have a relationship. It is safe to say their intentions are not sincere/pure.

Regards,

PS: However, since you're already curious, maybe you should read about Islam, ask around about it. . . if nothing, just for knowledge's sake. :)

Hi Kelly I donot know your situation but if
I in your place I will believe in Islam like
experience if I find it well I countinue if
I not be concieved I will return to my last
state but I hope and think you are being satisfied
about islam because it organizes our life and learns us
how to deal with people and respect them
at last this only my own view and I hope it be acceptable
from you and God bless you.

You are right why you should change for him when he himself is not a practicing Muslim. But what about for yourself? He probably wants you to become Muslim may be just by name, like he himself is, so probably his family and friends would not point fingers at him.
In some cases like this the wife brings her husband to become practicing and good Muslim thus deserving the reward only Allah can provide.
But I will say, its absolutely up to you but don't revert until you fully understand and build that strong foundation. But do it for yourself, if you are ready. If you just do it for him, it will not be of any benefit, but Allah knows the best.
Take care, and guard yourself, learn and teach him what he took for granted and don't live by.
May Allah grant you what is good for you, Ameen.
Hasan

kelly wrote: Thanks for all yoyr messages  Well basicly he's 31 years old and im 18. Ive met his mum a few times and at the start she was telling me how i should change in my own time when im ready. Now she dosnt wont to speak to me unless i change. Hes met my family on numerous occations.. they dont wont to speak to him anymore because of the things hes recently done. Ive read a few books and have started to learn alot about it but im stil not to sure if i should change.. after all, why should i change my life when he isnt a practising muslim himself.