Friendship Issue..

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 Asslamu Alaikum Wa Rahamtau Allah 

 Friend of the same sex.

  It is a wonderful nice feeling to have a good friend. 

 Some people think that it is not important. At least you can survive without a friend!!!

   You may have so many friends but there must ONE and only one friend
that you feel she is not just a friend. She is like your real sister. 

  This close friend/sister  .....

 1- Loves you  for the sake of Allah not for money or position or rank or
nationality or color or shape or appearance. She cares too much for you
as you. 

 2- never lies to you or cheat you. 

 3- Listens to you when you speak and do not interrupt you. 

 4- Feels happy with you  and cry with you. 

 5- Ask about you and try to keep in touch with you.

 6- Respect your way of life, your family, your traditions and your way of thinking. 

 7- Help you when you need and never remind you of her good deed.

 8- Accept you as you.. 

 ...

  Well, Does any one of you have this friend???

...

  If you have this friend it means that Allah the Merciful has blessed you with a Great blessing so do not let her GO..

  1- If your friend is so patient when she listens to you.. give her
the time to speak and do not be selfish and want to speak and she listen
the whole time. Let her speak and listen to her carefully. Be full of understanding and never interrupt her.

 2- You may do not agree on a point, do not worry, if you see that this is from Quraan and Sunnah tell her that and she will accept it but
in other issues do not argue. When you feel that it hurts your friend
stop that and end the discussion to be sure she is smiling after every
thing.

 You may LOVE your friend but do not agree on some points!! do not worry!! you are still friends ..

 3- Make surprises to your friend. Surprise her with a gift, a party... Pay attention to the color she likes and her other favorite things.

 4- Wish her the true happiness in her life even if her happiness will
make her away form you. Then remebr she is fine and smile. 

  5- Understand your friends life. If she is marreid, having kids or
she works long hours or she is sick and never balme her for not
calling or visiting you.

  6- If you hear that your friend gossips about you or spread your secrets, do not get mad be more patient and be honest and direct with
her. Tell her everything you heard about and give her the chance to explain. If she denys believe her because she is more honest that the
person who told you.

 7- Your true friend desrve that you remember her in her absence and pray Allah for her.
 .. well I think speaking about friendship isuue is endless. You amy add more..
 What is your ideal frined like?

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Full of Hopes Members Profile Send Private Message Find Members Posts Add to Buddy List Senior Member Female Joined: 06 August 2009 Status: Offline Points: 855	Post Options Post Reply Quote Full of Hopes Report Post Thanks(0) Quote Reply Topic: Friendship Issue.. Posted: 02 October 2009 at 9:57pm
	Asslamu Alaikum Wa Rahamtau Allah Friend of the same sex. It is a wonderful nice feeling to have a good friend. Some people think that it is not important. At least you can survive without a friend!!! You may have so many friends but there must ONE and only one friend that you feel she is not just a friend. She is like your real sister. This close friend/sister ..... 1- Loves you for the sake of Allah not for money or position or rank or nationality or color or shape or appearance. She cares too much for you as you. 2- never lies to you or cheat you. 3- Listens to you when you speak and do not interrupt you. 4- Feels happy with you and cry with you. 5- Ask about you and try to keep in touch with you. 6- Respect your way of life, your family, your traditions and your way of thinking. 7- Help you when you need and never remind you of her good deed. 8- Accept you as you.. ... Well, Does any one of you have this friend??? ... If you have this friend it means that Allah the Merciful has blessed you with a Great blessing so do not let her GO.. 1- If your friend is so patient when she listens to you.. give her the time to speak and do not be selfish and want to speak and she listen the whole time. Let her speak and listen to her carefully. Be full of understanding and never interrupt her. 2- You may do not agree on a point, do not worry, if you see that this is from Quraan and Sunnah tell her that and she will accept it but in other issues do not argue. When you feel that it hurts your friend stop that and end the discussion to be sure she is smiling after every thing. You may LOVE your friend but do not agree on some points!! do not worry!! you are still friends .. 3- Make surprises to your friend. Surprise her with a gift, a party... Pay attention to the color she likes and her other favorite things. 4- Wish her the true happiness in her life even if her happiness will make her away form you. Then remebr she is fine and smile. 5- Understand your friends life. If she is marreid, having kids or she works long hours or she is sick and never balme her for not calling or visiting you. 6- If you hear that your friend gossips about you or spread your secrets, do not get mad be more patient and be honest and direct with her. Tell her everything you heard about and give her the chance to explain. If she denys believe her because she is more honest that the person who told you. 7- Your true friend desrve that you remember her in her absence and pray Allah for her. .. well I think speaking about friendship isuue is endless. You amy add more.. What is your ideal frined like?
	And whoever seeks a religion other than Isl�m, it will never be accepted of him, and in the Hereafter he will be one of the losers(3:85)

Full of Hopes Members Profile Send Private Message Find Members Posts Add to Buddy List Senior Member Female Joined: 06 August 2009 Status: Offline Points: 855	Post Options Post Reply Quote Full of Hopes Report Post Thanks(0) Quote Reply Posted: 03 October 2009 at 3:40pm
	Sweet things are easy 2 buy, But sweet people are difficult to find. Life ends when u stop dreaming, Hope ends when u stop believing, Love ends when u stop caring, Friendship ends when u stop sharing... Edited by Full of Hopes - 03 October 2009 at 3:41pm
	And whoever seeks a religion other than Isl�m, it will never be accepted of him, and in the Hereafter he will be one of the losers(3:85)

Zaharah Members Profile Send Private Message Find Members Posts Add to Buddy List Senior Member Female Joined: 01 June 2008 Location: United States Status: Offline Points: 273	Post Options Post Reply Quote Zaharah Report Post Thanks(0) Quote Reply Posted: 10 October 2009 at 7:06pm
	Wa alaikum as Salams sister a big hug for you Amen..... Sister Zaharah
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