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    Posted: 19 March 2006 at 10:32am
Yes i do know...but i cant feel anything about anything...im talking about emotions in general...i just cant feel and i dont know why...i dont hurt i dont feel happy but im not mad at it or sad or upset about it...i just cant feel and i dont know what is causing it...and yes i still love her.
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asalamualaykum , hey wisher my advice is to marry her allah (swt) made one person just for you  if shes the naseeb then she is you cant really control your heart or the love you have for her and just as long as you two arent doing anything bad then  you are fine inshallah she is the one for you and she will make you happy masalama

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oh brother we r discussing and we dint ask about each other sorry, anyhow where r u from whats ur name,im syed from india.
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Yes it is a good thing and it helps us both...we've just solved the fight and now we're fine...Al hamdulilah...well all i have to do is wait now...i do acctually leave things in the hands of Allah...when im thinking about her and what im doin...i always do one thing...i pray a single prayer in which i say the same thing every time..."Allah guide me and protect me" and i think Allah has...and i thank Allah for it always...nothing has gone to far and we're both working things out...for things i cant help myself with i always trust it with Allah...i trust everything in Allah...He is the only one that can truely help me...and i do thank u people too...ill keep u posted...
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its very good to hear that u r keeping physical distance , may ALLAH guide u in thr right path ,please visit this site u will be benifited

www.shariahway.com
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Keeping physical distance is not a problem...we live 40 miles apart...and i havent seen her in 3 months...we just talk online everyday...thats all...so its kinda rough and kind of a good thing...we're learning to work things out even though we arent seeing each other directly...although we are still in a fight...
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Brother we all are human beings we do few acts same as every one, falling in love is nothing wrong in it ,once u fall in love both liked each other and want to marry its good nothing wrong in it, for this their is no need for u to strugle u can go ahead and get her marry with the consent of ur parents.

islam is very beautifull religion it has given right for a girl and boy to select their life partners so u both did.

Only thing u have to make sure that u have to keep physical  distance from her till u get marry , if u cant then marry her as soon as u can ,it will help to avoid sins.

the only request to you is marry her as soon as u can and till that avoid personal and physical meetings.

 
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Ya big fight...she thinks im an ass...i think i messed up...help...
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