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    Posted: 31 March 2007 at 4:09pm

Man....you can do one thing.....call him up......and ask him for a dinner with the rest of you. Make him part of your teammates....maybe you can start going to the gym together....think of something.....I know you can! Gud Luck!.....

 

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salam bro

Al-hamdulilah we have quite a community of muslim students here and we are trying to help him but i have noticed that he has stopped coming to the mosque rr maybe he is busy r something .... but i haven't heard from him in a month, i dunno what to do... i did my best ... perhaps could have done more

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Originally posted by .:: SoHaIB ::. .:: SoHaIB ::. wrote:

Salam guyz,

I'll be short and to the point. I need ur advice abt a very serious matter. I met up with this guy in the university a couple of days back, he's from yugoslavia or something. He told me that although he is a muslim by name but he he doen't know anything about Islam because of the environment he grew up in and now his christian friends are trying to convert him to christianity. I need ur advice as to how i can help him, I asked a lot of my muslim friend's to be extra nice to him and treat him very kindly. I don't know if its working r not but any sugeestions????

thnx  

Bismillah and Salaams,

As a Muslim I can love and do the Christian prophets including Jesus.  But it is a rare Christian who can love our Prophet Muhammad.  Indeed, part of the doctrine of many Churches teach that he was an evil man, AstagfirrAllah. 

Islaam is so beautiful because:  Allah is neither male nor female and men and women are equal before Allah based on our piety, not our gender.

We are taught to love and forgive and that Allah, The Forgiver, will forgive us if our intention is pure, which is His determination.  We don't need a human blood sacrifice for our Loving Lord's forgiveness and mercy.

So many beautiful things in Islaam.  Maybe this guy is lonely and wants some companions.  and maybe there just aren't many Muslim buddies around for him.

Al-Hamdulillah (From a Married Muslimah) La Howla Wa La Quwata Illa BiLLah - There is no Effort or Power except with Allah's Will.
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41 and aminah true and thanx for the advice all of you....i'll try to do what i can, the rest is upto ASLLAH (SWT )...May ALLAH guide him and all of us...Ameen
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Originally posted by Angel Angel wrote:

think i got it all wrong, i never refered to the guy as your friend, you might like to re-read  

yeah i guess...my bad

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Aminah07 wrote: the best thing to do is to set a good example and be kind it's not your place to judge but offer support if they ask for it.

As a Muslim, we are living in a constant 'magnifying lenses'. Our movements are being closely monitored by ALLAH. So it is our duty to perform our conduct as Muslim should. THE BEST ONES. It is not to get the lenses distorted in any manner to whomever ever interact in our daily activities if we fear ALLAH.

Inshaallah.

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ASA,

i just wanted to add in our city over the last 2-3 years there has been a large number of Albanian muslims moving here.

i've run into several of the srs' that are muslim but not practicing Islam. they only want to live the dream of western life. it's their choice to practice or not. so if they don't want to practice than that is there decision but if they ever ask me my advice i will be honest but in a nice way for them to understand why i live the way i do.

the best thing to do is to set a good example and be kind it's not your place to judge but offer support if they ask for it.

Aminah

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Originally posted by .:: SoHaIB ::. .:: SoHaIB ::. wrote:

Oo Angel man ..or woman

woman

Quote u got it all wrong. This guy is not my friend but i know him.

Actually i don't think i got it all wrong, i never refered to the guy as your friend, you might like to re-read  

Quote He wants to know more about islam.... HE told me that his friends are trying to convert him to christianity and he doesn't know anything about islam....yeah and try to be kinda positive k.

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