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   Wa Alaikum Asalaam wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuh,
Dear sister,
JazakAllahu Khairan for reaching out with such a heartfelt and sincere question. Raising children in an Islamic way, especially in a non-Muslim country like the UK, comes with unique challenges. Alhamdulillah, there are ways to nurture your daughters in a way that strengthens their faith and values while addressing the concerns you mentioned.
Here are some practical tips:

Model Islamic Values:

Children often imitate what they see. Demonstrate patience, kindness, and the importance of salah and Quran in your daily life. Use every opportunity to explain the "why" behind Islamic practices.

Set a Routine with Gentle Discipline:

For issues like responding to requests or bedtime routines, set consistent schedules and explain their benefits. Use gentle reminders and reward positive behavior. Make du'a for ease and patience.

Encourage Focus with Breaks:

For lack of concentration, consider using age-appropriate study techniques. Break learning into small chunks, involve interactive methods, and limit screen time before study.

Balance Discipline and Freedom:

If your children engage in something halal but not preferred, gently guide them to better options. Share Islamic stories and lessons that emphasize good character and balance.

Public School Challenges:

Support their Islamic identity by supplementing public school education with Islamic learning. At MeeM Academia, we offer online Quran and Islamic studies courses tailored to kids of all ages, with flexible timings and engaging methods. Explore these programs at MeeM Academia - Courses.

Motivation and Confidence Building:

Encourage bravery by praising their efforts rather than outcomes. Share stories of the Prophets and Sahabiyat to inspire courage and resilience. Start small, like rewarding them for trying something new.

Remember, raising children is a journey, and every parent faces challenges. Trust in Allah, make lots of du’a, and seek knowledge to guide your efforts. If you'd like tailored Islamic guidance, feel free to explore the resources available at MeeM Academia.
May Allah (SWT) grant you ease, wisdom, and barakah in your efforts. Ameen.
Wassalamu Alaikum wa Rahmatullah,

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	Wa Alaikum Asalaam wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuh, Dear sister, JazakAllahu Khairan for reaching out with such a heartfelt and sincere question. Raising children in an Islamic way, especially in a non-Muslim country like the UK, comes with unique challenges. Alhamdulillah, there are ways to nurture your daughters in a way that strengthens their faith and values while addressing the concerns you mentioned. Here are some practical tips: Model Islamic Values: Children often imitate what they see. Demonstrate patience, kindness, and the importance of salah and Quran in your daily life. Use every opportunity to explain the "why" behind Islamic practices. Set a Routine with Gentle Discipline: For issues like responding to requests or bedtime routines, set consistent schedules and explain their benefits. Use gentle reminders and reward positive behavior. Make du'a for ease and patience. Encourage Focus with Breaks: For lack of concentration, consider using age-appropriate study techniques. Break learning into small chunks, involve interactive methods, and limit screen time before study. Balance Discipline and Freedom: If your children engage in something halal but not preferred, gently guide them to better options. Share Islamic stories and lessons that emphasize good character and balance. Public School Challenges: Support their Islamic identity by supplementing public school education with Islamic learning. At MeeM Academia, we offer online Quran and Islamic studies courses tailored to kids of all ages, with flexible timings and engaging methods. Explore these programs at MeeM Academia - Courses. Motivation and Confidence Building: Encourage bravery by praising their efforts rather than outcomes. Share stories of the Prophets and Sahabiyat to inspire courage and resilience. Start small, like rewarding them for trying something new. Remember, raising children is a journey, and every parent faces challenges. Trust in Allah, make lots of du’a, and seek knowledge to guide your efforts. If you'd like tailored Islamic guidance, feel free to explore the resources available at MeeM Academia. May Allah (SWT) grant you ease, wisdom, and barakah in your efforts. Ameen. Wassalamu Alaikum wa Rahmatullah, Your sister in Islam < defer="" ="https://static.cloudflareinsights.com/beacon.min.js/vcd15cbe7772f49c399c6a5babf22c1241717689176015" integrity="sha512-ZpsOmlRQV6y907TI0dKBHq9Md29nnaEIPlkf84rnaERnq6zvWvPUqr2ft8M1aS28on72PdrCzSjY4U6VaAw1EQ==" -cf-beacon=""rayId":"9014d4f1cbca7eaa","Timing":"name":"cfExtPri":true,"cfL4":true,"cfSpeedBrain":true,"cfCacheStatus":true,"version":"2025.1.0","token":"8df2d259d5274f8e82760271d5418f32"" crossorigin="anonymous">