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    Posted: 29 January 2018 at 6:47pm
Originally posted by POCCY POCCY wrote:

Originally posted by ZamanH ZamanH wrote:

As Salaam Alaikum,


What's the big deal, anyway, if Prohet had intercourse with Aisha (R.A) when she was 9 years old??





What's the big deal, you ask?
He slept with a nine-year-old. That's what.


Was it illegal? (In my opinion, No. This is because the evidence that has reached us clearly indicates the the marriage took place with proper celebrations as per the rituals and customs of the land at that time). However, if yes (according to you), then please quote the law of the land to prove your concern, otherwise, I would insist that you may like to change your spectacles of time to understand such events.


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Edited by MIAW - 29 January 2018 at 12:26pm
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Originally posted by ZamanH ZamanH wrote:

As Salaam Alaikum,


What's the big deal, anyway, if Prohet had intercourse with Aisha (R.A) when she was 9 years old??





What's the big deal, you ask?
He slept with a nine-year-old. That's what.
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Summa summarum:
The prophet of Islam did sleep with a nine-year-old.
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AUTHENTICITY OF THE HADITHS

bEWARE OF FAKE ONES AND THEIR SLANDERERS AND MUDSLINGERS

 

 WAKE UP CALL TO Muslims

 

Dear Brothers in Islam,

 

When I was discussing with atheists, I made a search about the prophet’s marriage with Aisha and I am so happy that disbelievers or non-believers are very badly slandering and smearing about last Prophet. Please spread the following information to all forums and web sites.

 

 

A theology professor told me that the real map of Islam in our times are really more complicated to figure out than EVOLUTION TREE BECAUSE ORIENTALISTS' RESTLESS ATTEMPTS TO MAKE A MESS by producing FAKE HADITHS EVEN IN BUKHARI ,and he added, very soon there will be a study to pick all fake hadiths from all hadiths, sources and clean up all misconceptions, misperceptions, and misinterpretations In Islam to reveal the pure face of Islam and he added the same is needed for Christianity as well.The Truth about the prophet Mohammed’s marriage.

 

The prophet got married with Khadija in 595.

Khadija passed away in nearly 620.

Aise's sister, Asma was born in 595. She was ten years older than Aisha.

So Aisha was born in 605.

She got married in 623 with the prophet.

 

Indeed there is no need for our prophet to get married or get engaged while Khadjia was alive.

 

http://www.muslim.org/islam/aisha-age.htm

 

http://www.masjidtucson.org/submission/perspectives/more/family/marriage/muhammadmarriageaisha.html

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Laurie:

There is a disagreement amongst historians and scholars as to the exact age of Aisha (R.A) when she consumnated her marriage with Prophet Muhammad. . . Some quote a later figure, others quote an earlier one. I will not argue as to her exact age, because to me that is irrelevant as long as she was past puberty. To me, what is relevant is whether or not Aisha was capable of/willing to consumnate her relationship with Prophet Muhammad.
 
 
There is perfect agreement that she had already reached puberty, and was sexually mature. That is Allah/God's (or nature's, whichever you prefer) way of saying that a person is capable of sexual intimacy and is physically mature.
 
In a society with no restrictions and complete freedom, after reaching sexual maturity, children naturally become sexually active, and need an outlet for these feelings. Islam recognizes that, and takes the moderate path i.e. you do not have to supress your feelings as wrong/dirty - but you also should not go around having unsecure/promiscous sex. Which is why marriage after puberty is reccommended.
 
Thus, Aisha - like any other normal young girl, got married - to the best of Men at that time, willingly. She was happy with him, and she loved him. (and he loved her)
 
Many people will hear of very young girls today who are sexually active, and think it is a normal, biological thing, yet when they hear of Aisha's marriage at a tender age, thier eyeball's pop out!
Alhamdulilah, Aisha was very happy with her marriage, and we read her accounts in her own words today, given the fact that she was a bold, independent lady - she always gave the most honest of accounts about her life with the Prophet. . . which relate how happy she was with him, and even mentions any slight tiffs she ever had. She was clearly not a victim in this marriage.
 
Having said that, the only issue (by some people) here that I can forsee is the age-difference. But that has never been considered a negative factor in a marriage - even today. Spouses with quite a significant age-difference have been happy together. Its not even a brow-raiser today. Also, apparently in those days as well, age was not an issue. Since many men/women married older spouses as well as younger ones. Prophet Muhammad himself was 20 years younger than his first wife, who was his sole wife until her death. And he loved her deeply. . . he was so saddened by her death that he termed that year his 'year of grief'. After which his relatives pleaded with him to marry again. And so he married Aisha & Sauda. Many of the companions of the Prophet also had older wive's. A quick example that just came to my mind is Abdur-Rahman bin Auf.
 
In a nutshell, even according to modern standards, its considered natural/ normal for post-puberty children to be sexually active. . . as young as 10. Then what is so wierd about a young muslim girl getting married and consumnating her relationship within a secure, loving marriage 1400 years ago?
 
 
 


Edited by Chrysalis - 09 July 2008 at 12:41pm
"O Lord, forgive me, my parents and Muslims in the Hereafter. O Lord, show mercy on them as they showed mercy to me when I was young."
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Originally posted by ZamanH ZamanH wrote:

Originally posted by Laurie Laurie wrote:


And, ZanmanH, how well I know you, though I have never even met you.



Atleast in my last post, I was not justifying intercourse with a 9 year old girl by any man.


My point was, it is incorrect to judge the character of the Prophet on the basis of his having intercourse with Aisha (R.A) when she was 9 years old (I have mentioned the reasons in my last post).


ZamanH



he didnt had intercourse with her when she was 9
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