pregnancy-related help

ASALAMULAKUM! SISTER I AM SAD TO HERE  ABOUT YOUR SITUATION. AND BY THE WAY MY NAME IS ATIAH AND MY ADVISE TO YOU IS TO BE PATIENT AND KEEP YOUR FAITH IN ALLAH BECAUSE ALLAH IS THE BEST OF PLANNERS AND HE DOSEN"T PUT NO MORE ON YOU THEN WHAT YOU CAN HANDLE IT WILL ALL WORK OUT FOR THE BEST.ME AND THE REST OF THE SISTERS ON THIS FORUM ARE HERE FOR  YOU AND YOUR FAMILY INSHALLAH WE ARE ALL MAKEING DUAH FOR YOU AND YOUR FAMILY TO MAKE IT THROUGH INSHALLAH .AND BE PATIENT WITH YOUR HUDSBAND HE PROBALY BE A LITTLE FLASTRATED SOMETIMES .IT'S BECAUSE MEN CAN'T DELL WITH CERTIN THINGS LIKE WE CAN THAT'S WHY ALLAH PLACE US AS A BACK BONE FOR THEM. AND HE SHOULD ALSO NO THAT YOU ARE VERY EMOTIONAL THROUGH YOUR PREGNACEY. SO SLOW DOWN YOUR WORRING AND DONT STRESS YOUR SELF ALLAH IS GOING TO TAKE CARE OF YOU AND YOUR FAMILY.AND SHOW YOUR HUDSBANB YOU NEED HIM THROUGH YOUR AFFECTION.AND PLEASE SINGH UP FOR THE BABY SHOWER REGISTERY SO WE CAN HELPYOU ,AN D SEND US THE INFORMATION WHEN YOU DO INHSALLAH.WE ARE ALL MUSLIM WE ARE FAMILY WE STICK TOGATHER .ASALAMALAKUM!

 

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Salem Aamna,

Inshallah ALLAH swt take away your stress and feelings.

Speak with your Husband (If you have not already) that You and his baby is what he should worry about. Not because others don't know yet or whatever.  May ALLAH swt guide him and all of us Amen.

 

walaikum salam,

i am only in my 4th month actually! Due in beginning of Feb. 2007 inshaAllah.  so, not really noticeably bigger yet!  thank you for your prayers.  I have not called or applied for anything yet, husband is working a lot this summer, and I am near the end of my summer internship with the city government.. so we're saving up some money for now, but don't know what will happen after this month is over and my internship ends and we both have to go back to school.. I will have to see what happens this fall.

Today I went to drop off a prescription for prenatal vitamins at a pharmacy near my internship b/c my other one is running low.  It turned out that the pharmacists are good friends with my husband and my sister-in-law's husband, b/c one of them called up my husband.  My husband called me right away and started yelling at me for going to that pharmacy! The reason why he is mad at me is because my legal name is still non-muslim (I'm a revert), now they know I'm pregnant based off my prescription, and he is sick of explaining our story and talking about his personal life.  And that since one of the other pharmacists knows his brother-in-law, he can spill another personal detail (pregnancy) about me to him.  All of this has a lot to do with his pakistani culture.. at this point, I have always been fed up with a lot of pakistani culture and traditions, but now I am really at the end of my rope.. and it also has to do with his pride. I did not walk into that pharmacy with these intentions! I am already over-emotional (from all these hormones) to begin with and he is making me feel worse, upset and stressed out. 

Mashallah. Congratulations.