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Posted: 13 April 2005 at 6:30am |
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Awwwww....
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nasa
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Posted: 13 April 2005 at 6:56am |
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thanx for the sympathy, but i needf some help!
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ummziba
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Posted: 13 April 2005 at 6:57am |
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nasa, Perhaps you would like to tell us a bit about what is making you sad. How can anyone offer advice if we don't know what the problem is? Peace, ummziba. |
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Sticks and stones may break my bones, but your words...they break my soul ~
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nasa
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Posted: 13 April 2005 at 7:00am |
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i have been happily married to my husband for 6 years and have 4
beautiful children. i have discovered that he is looking at porn
on the net and i feel angry, betrayed and disgusted.ineed some help and
guidance.Please help!
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nasa
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Posted: 13 April 2005 at 7:03am |
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ummziba, thankyou for the verse. please can you give me some Islamic advice on what to do?
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Posted: 13 April 2005 at 7:08am |
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nasa, I don't know exactly what your situation is, but here is what I would do. I would threaten to tell my parents and family, his parents and family and the imam of the masjid he attends what he has been doing. If that doesn't stop him, TELL. When his dirty little secret is out in the open the disgrace of it would surely stop him from continuing! If he has a huge problem stopping, get rid of the internet in your home. If he won't stop, the blame is entirely on his soul. Allah is All-Knowing. This may or may not be helpful for your situation but do keep in mind, he is the one doing wrong, not you. Don't place any of the blame on yourself, dear. Peace, ummziba. |
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Posted: 13 April 2005 at 7:14am |
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I have spoken to him and he said he
would never do it again,but it makes me question what is wrong with me
that he had to look at this filth? He is a revert and i believed he was
a very decent man. He asked me to waer the hijab,and although i found
it difficult idid it ito please him.I feel like he is such a
hypocrite.i feel like not wering it anymore.I am so unhappy
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