i got similar problem ahlam

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   As salamu alaikum
Of course there's always a possibility that a person may change (for the better or worse).  But, my advice to you is, don't expect him to change after marriage.  There's just no guarantee that he'll become religious after he marries you.  If he isn't up to your standards now, why not find someone who is?
Salaam

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Abeer23 Members Profile Send Private Message Find Members Posts Add to Buddy List Senior Member Joined: 28 September 2005 Status: Offline Points: 493	Post Options Post Reply Quote Abeer23 Report Post Thanks(0) Quote Reply Topic: i got similar problem ahlam Posted: 09 May 2006 at 1:29am
	As salamu alaikum Of course there's always a possibility that a person may change (for the better or worse). But, my advice to you is, don't expect him to change after marriage. There's just no guarantee that he'll become religious after he marries you. If he isn't up to your standards now, why not find someone who is? Salaam

herjihad Members Profile Send Private Message Find Members Posts Add to Buddy List Senior Member Joined: 26 January 2005 Location: United States Status: Offline Points: 2473	Post Options Post Reply Quote herjihad Report Post Thanks(0) Quote Reply Posted: 08 May 2006 at 12:45pm
	Bismillah, I think people need a lot more information to give you some clear, helpful insight, Sister Muriam.
	Al-Hamdulillah (From a Married Muslimah) La Howla Wa La Quwata Illa BiLLah - There is no Effort or Power except with Allah's Will.

muriam Members Profile Send Private Message Find Members Posts Add to Buddy List Starter Joined: 08 May 2006 Location: United Kingdom Status: Offline Points: 3	Post Options Post Reply Quote muriam Report Post Thanks(0) Quote Reply Posted: 08 May 2006 at 12:12pm
	my uncle has asked for me to for my cuzon obviuosly but and i like him too he too speeks a different lang but i fink es too moden not enough religous but things ca change and + i fink my appereance reall is important can some1 give me a good insight t dis plzz