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My family and I were recently invited to a barbecue lunch at the house of some Muslim friends we recently met.  Many others were there.  Soon after we arrived, we ...
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icforumadmin Members Profile Send Private Message Find Members Posts Add to Buddy List Admin Group Joined: 15 February 2005 Status: Offline Points: 1056	Post Options Post Reply Quote icforumadmin Report Post Thanks(0) Quote Reply Topic: Feeling Unfriendly (16) Posted: 21 September 2023 at 5:53pm
	My family and I were recently invited to a barbecue lunch at the house of some Muslim friends we recently met. Many others were there. Soon after we arrived, we ... https://www.islamicity.org/dearhadi/16

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Huzaifa Arshad Members Profile Send Private Message Find Members Posts Add to Buddy List Newbie Islam Joined: 19 April 2024 Location: Pakistan Status: Offline Points: 11	Post Options Post Reply Quote Huzaifa Arshad Report Post Thanks(0) Quote Reply Posted: 20 April 2024 at 7:19am
	In Islam, consuming alcohol is prohibited, and believers are encouraged to avoid environments where it is served. While it's commendable to maintain politeness, expressing discomfort directly to the hostess can be done respectfully to clarify your position. Continuing the friendship may depend on whether similar situations can be avoided in the future while maintaining mutual respect and understanding of religious boundaries.

Mughees Members Profile Send Private Message Find Members Posts Add to Buddy List Groupie Male Islam Joined: 05 April 2024 Location: Pakistan Status: Offline Points: 78	Post Options Post Reply Quote Mughees Report Post Thanks(0) Quote Reply Posted: 22 April 2024 at 6:30am
	Wa alaikum assalam, in such a type of situations, it is important to navigate it with wisdom and respect. When addressing the issue, be kind and considerate, It's important to maintain a respect tone. Your intention should be express your beliefs and concerns without coming across os judgmental. If you valuue your friendship, you can maintain it while setting clear boundaries. Let your friend know that you prefer gatherings where alcohol is not served, and they may understand and accomodate your request in the future. In all situations, prioritize your faith and avoid situations that may lead you to compromise your beliefs.