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Starter. Islam Joined: 30 April 2022 Location: Bosnia and Herzegovina Status: Offline Points: 2 |
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Posted: 30 April 2022 at 7:27am |
Assalam alaikum, I am 25 years old and I've studied at an University (started 6 years ago, graduated cca 3 years ago) where I've met a girl colleague. I've liked her for a couple of years now and we've actually been a part of the same friends group for years, but since I don't live in a fully islamic oriented country, and generally Muslims here have a lifestyle mixed with Islam and the West, I couldn't go right away and propose for marriage. We've known each other for around 6 years and I don't think she is in love with me. However, in a month or two, she is likely moving to a different city for work purposes which is cca 2 hrs away from the city we both currently live in. For a bit now, after praying, I've begged Allah to make her my wife in the near future and as I see that she is moving away, the realistic chances of that happening seem to become lower as time goes by. I know that Allah is the Only Who knows the truth and what will happen and I don't want to lose hope. At the same time, I am not sure if she likes me in such a way. I've begged Him to make her my wife and I intend to keep begging. However, I know that Allah will grant something if it's good for you, and since not much "seems" to be happening, I also started begging Him to make her a good thing for me (i.e "Oh Allah, if she is not good for me, please make it so that she is good for me"), since the Almighty can grant anything. I wonder if that's the proper approach towards something like this: - 1a. to ask to make her my wife if she is good - 1b. if she isn't good for me, then to ask Him to make her good for me - 2. if I am praying and begging enough I am sorry for my English, I hope it was clear what I wanted to ask.
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