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    Posted: 24 May 2021 at 4:03pm
I am worried that I may not get all that my soul desires in Jannah. I want to be white skinned with blue eyes and silky long hair. I want to look like my inspiration Anne Morrow Lindbergh but I am black Muslim, and I have abusive family members, I have abusive parents. I don't love my family but I don't hate them, I just don't love them. What do I do? Should I continue to look forward to Jannah/Paradise for hope? Or are my dreams too unrealistic? My friends say that it is impossible for God or Allah to make me white because it is unrealistic. But this is what I want inshalallah. Please someone help me understand what I should do? I want to be in a different race so badly, I was hoping one day in Jannah I will be white, a completely new and different person. We get a new body anyway, and we are resurrected and that is hard to believe. And add to that we live forever. It is not fair that other people's dreams and desires can come true but mines can't because it is unrealistic. Can somebody help me am I wrong? Thanks. Wa alaykumu s-salam wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh
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Wa alaikum Salam,
Race, color, ethnicity are categories that we have in this world. In the next world, there would be only one race, human race. There will be only one color, a human color that is pleasing to eyes, and there will be only one ethnicity. It will be a world of the most beautiful people inside and outside. Don't worry, you would be the most admired person there. Focus on doing things in this world that would take you there.
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Originally posted by Anin Anin wrote:

It is not fair that other people's dreams and desires can come true but mines can't because it is unrealistic. Can somebody help me am I wrong? Thanks. Wa alaykumu s-salam wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh


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There is nothing to worry about. Do not to think about and it and just continue the good thing that you are doing. Even if some people around you are testing you. Focus on your goals and be a great person.
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Can my desire still come true for me in Jannah, though?
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Only God will answer this question. What we know is that umans will be in their purest stage of existence.

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