Making Dua with unrealistic expectations

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   Salam im new here and im sorry if i posted in the wrong section. I am a male 26 years of age and I have fallen in love with this girl and our friendship started strong but i screwed it up by making a very naive comment about her father ( nothing bad or with malcontent ). I some times say and do things very bluntly and it is my fault that the relations ship ( not being gf/bf, just friends ) deteriorated to nothing. 
Ever since i have prayed every day and prayed tahajjud as well that she may forgive my naive comment and may Allah make a place in her heart for me as well as to get married to her.
I have been told to marry her or to go after her is a fools errand and that she has lost interest in me etc. 
But i am a persistent and resilient person and i shall keep on making dua for her. I make the 3 duas ,
1 - she forgives me and we start communicating again 
2 - if she is bad for me , may Allah make her worthy/better and we can live together 
3- May Allah do what ever he deems best 

I am just lost as to if any thing will happen , its coming near to a month since we talked , i dont know if what i am doing is right or not . I always bank on the fact that NO ONE KNOWS THE FUTURE and only Allah knows the future so he may bless me some how. I am hanging out in a small thread of optimism as to may Allah grant me my dua if not may her unburden my heart. 
Please i just need to know what to do , i am ever so lost and confused . I am not the best person , i have sinned alot and may not be the most naik , but if there is one dua i could have it would be to have her. 
Sorry if i sound very arrogant or such.

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	Salam im new here and im sorry if i posted in the wrong section. I am a male 26 years of age and I have fallen in love with this girl and our friendship started strong but i screwed it up by making a very naive comment about her father ( nothing bad or with malcontent ). I some times say and do things very bluntly and it is my fault that the relations ship ( not being gf/bf, just friends ) deteriorated to nothing. Ever since i have prayed every day and prayed tahajjud as well that she may forgive my naive comment and may Allah make a place in her heart for me as well as to get married to her. I have been told to marry her or to go after her is a fools errand and that she has lost interest in me etc. But i am a persistent and resilient person and i shall keep on making dua for her. I make the 3 duas , 1 - she forgives me and we start communicating again 2 - if she is bad for me , may Allah make her worthy/better and we can live together 3- May Allah do what ever he deems best I am just lost as to if any thing will happen , its coming near to a month since we talked , i dont know if what i am doing is right or not . I always bank on the fact that NO ONE KNOWS THE FUTURE and only Allah knows the future so he may bless me some how. I am hanging out in a small thread of optimism as to may Allah grant me my dua if not may her unburden my heart. Please i just need to know what to do , i am ever so lost and confused . I am not the best person , i have sinned alot and may not be the most naik , but if there is one dua i could have it would be to have her. Sorry if i sound very arrogant or such.