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ahlam
Newbie Joined: 07 March 2006 Location: United States Status: Offline Points: 21 |
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I prayed salat al-istikhara and I found myself wanting to marry my cousin but then i had a dream. In my dream my grandparents came from Palestine to the US and my grandma asked me what happened with Mohammed my cousin and there were lots of people at my house and everyone heard her and would think I am engaged to him. Then I went into my room and got so mad that I cried. Is that a sign I shouldn't marry him?
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Abeer23
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Don't say no to him, just start working on your spoken Arabic. You can already understand it so it will be quite easy. I agree with bayatwp, do istikhara, trust in Allah, and trust in parents too. Salaam |
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bayatwp
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salaamz alhlam I suggest you make istikhaarah salaah.Only Allah can guide you towards the corect decision.Also I think that if your parents approve of him then he cant be that bad .Whether he is a grocery worker or not should not concern you unless it means he cant take care of you financially.so inshallah i hope Allah guides you towards the truth!!!whatever it may be |
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salman
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walaikumussalam recite the dua which prophet Moses (peace be upon him) made to Allah when Allah ordered prophet Moses (peace be upon him) to go to Fir'aun. the verse is mentioned in the Quran. pray to Allah. if Allah wills, Allah will solve your problem.
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ak_m_f
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grocery worker = $500,000 house how? |
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ahlam
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well he has two sisters one knows a little english and the other doesn't know any. I speak to them both but my arabic isn't that great. I know a lot of quran and I can read and write it. I asked his sister about me not knowing english and she told me he asked if a knew arabic too. I am afraid we won't be able to talk to each other like we would if we both spoke the same language fluently. Should I say no to him?
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herjihad
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Bismillah, Dear Sister Ahlam, I am familiar with the type of situation you are in. Well, your culture is different in that he was raised there and you here, you have a big difference in experiences "culturally". Why don't you work on not only improving your spoken Arabic, but also get familiar with songs and music that he likes, that have special meaning to him, and vice-versa? If you are friends with a Sister who is similar to him in terms of background, culture and language, she could help you understand many things you will need to know. I'm just assuming that you can read and write Quran fluently, but maybe that is wrong of me. Learning those would be essential for you as well if you don't know them. Edited by herjihad |
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Al-Hamdulillah (From a Married Muslimah) La Howla Wa La Quwata Illa BiLLah - There is no Effort or Power except with Allah's Will.
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Angel
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WOW! |
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~ Our feet are earthbound, but our hearts and our minds have wings ~
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