Ishtikhara : dream Spider Bite. With Green Diamond

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I don't know how to interpret dreams so sorry about that.

However what i know of experience is that it is always better to marry someone who matches ones mental maturity otherwise on gets to face a lot of emotional challenges. Challenges within a marriage is not a good thing to choose voluntarily.

One of the mistakes young people make is that they believe people can change.  

Well, in a way yes, people can change, but only when THEY want to not when WE WANT them to.

Wish you luck!

Edited by Nausheen - 16 February 2015 at 8:05pm

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Nausheen Members Profile Send Private Message Find Members Posts Add to Buddy List Moderator Group Female Joined: 10 January 2001 Status: Offline Points: 4251	Post Options Post Reply Quote Nausheen Report Post Thanks(0) Quote Reply Posted: 16 February 2015 at 8:03pm
	I don't know how to interpret dreams so sorry about that. However what i know of experience is that it is always better to marry someone who matches ones mental maturity otherwise on gets to face a lot of emotional challenges. Challenges within a marriage is not a good thing to choose voluntarily. One of the mistakes young people make is that they believe people can change. Well, in a way yes, people can change, but only when THEY want to not when WE WANT them to. Wish you luck! Edited by Nausheen - 16 February 2015 at 8:05pm
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gokilpokil Members Profile Send Private Message Find Members Posts Add to Buddy List Starter. Male Joined: 16 February 2015 Location: United States Status: Offline Points: 3	Post Options Post Reply Quote gokilpokil Report Post Thanks(0) Quote Reply Posted: 16 February 2015 at 7:03pm
	Assalam'alaikum, I performed Ishtikhara for marriage with my girlfriend. we have been goint through a rough patch for some time as she is very immature and careless, and hence causes me a lot of pain. I am an emotional and caring person and she on the other hand is very quite and etc. So, after several Ishtikhara prayers and I saw a dream which I am sure was shown by Allah. In the Dream, I saw myself walking towards school. The environment was bright and colored like bright sunlight. I had to cross a barrier (plant/bush) and after I crossed it, I realized that a spider web caught onto me (could not see it). As I was trying to get rid of it, I saw a rectangular spider web in front of me. It had violet colored diamonds in it. Then I looked down on my arm. I saw that one corner of a spider web is stuck onto my right arm. In that web, I saw a thin legged non-hairy black spider. I felt bad. Then I saw that the spider had a green diamond shaped thing on its body (middle part). I felt good seeing it. But then I got really scared as the spider was going towards my hand. Eventually, it bit me, and I could feel the pain within the dream. I woke up Can anyone please help me explain this dream to me? On top of that, I feel much lighter after the dream. she used to make me cry a lot. I was too emotional. I am not sure if this is love waning so that i can leave her, or strength from Allah to stay with her. (i am not sure if the green diamond is HOPE or just Good Heart) She is a good person. but she is not emotional or mentally healthy. Lacks empathy, but i usually want to believe that she will change someday. Edited by gokilpokil - 17 February 2015 at 9:58am