Polygamous Boundaries

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   I am in such a relationship; there should be boundaries and limits.  If she is a fiancee, she is still non-mehram.  Texting/talking on phone should not be happening.  Especially at 1AM.  

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emanresu Members Profile Send Private Message Find Members Posts Add to Buddy List Starter. Male Joined: 10 August 2014 Location: United States Status: Offline Points: 3	Post Options Post Reply Quote emanresu Report Post Thanks(0) Quote Reply Topic: Polygamous Boundaries Posted: 29 August 2014 at 5:23am
	I am in such a relationship; there should be boundaries and limits. If she is a fiancee, she is still non-mehram. Texting/talking on phone should not be happening. Especially at 1AM.

Nusfa Members Profile Send Private Message Find Members Posts Add to Buddy List Starter. Joined: 01 August 2014 Status: Offline Points: 4	Post Options Post Reply Quote Nusfa Report Post Thanks(0) Quote Reply Posted: 01 August 2014 at 7:49pm
	If she didn't agree to his having a second wife and still he takes another wife and does such things then?

Rofexa Members Profile Send Private Message Find Members Posts Add to Buddy List Newbie Joined: 17 September 2012 Status: Offline Points: 19	Post Options Post Reply Quote Rofexa Report Post Thanks(0) Quote Reply Posted: 01 August 2014 at 7:33pm
	Abu Lauren or Father of Lauren, Taliyya's question was addressed to those in polygamous relationships. From your response we can infer that you are not. So your answer is null and void!! As-salam Alaykum Taliyya, I am not in such a marriage, so I don't want to give you my opinion. You can wait for someone to respond who is in such a marriage or you can do your own research. If I were you I would take the second route So for this I would like to give you this link, to start your process, this link is very refreshing and eye opening. http://www.patheos.com/blogs/altmuslim/2012/09/why-is-polygamy-allowed-in-islam-how-is-it-best-practiced/

Abu Loren Members Profile Send Private Message Find Members Posts Add to Buddy List Senior Member Joined: 29 June 2012 Location: United Kingdom Status: Offline Points: 1646	Post Options Post Reply Quote Abu Loren Report Post Thanks(0) Quote Reply Posted: 01 August 2014 at 3:39am
	Did you agree to him having a second wife? If you did, then surely there's nothing wrong with what he's doing.

taliyya Members Profile Send Private Message Find Members Posts Add to Buddy List Groupie Joined: 28 September 2006 Status: Offline Points: 71	Post Options Post Reply Quote taliyya Report Post Thanks(0) Quote Reply Posted: 31 July 2014 at 2:40pm
	Assalamu Alaikum. I have a question for those in polygamous relationships. What kinds of boundaries or regulations did you set for the relationship? My husband is engaged. He talks to her over the phone while he's at the house. She texts him as late as 1:30 a.m. And he gets up to reply. I asked him to please not contact her while he's at home. He didn't see what's wrong with it even though he did reluctantly promise not to do it. Am I out of line or what?