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    Posted: 28 December 2012 at 8:08pm
Thank you for your nice words, sister.
I have actually several people who have said nice words to me, alhamdulillah.  I also have put up in some other forum previously and read many "script" of many nice words.  May ALLAH reward all of them for typing those words.  Slightly make me felt better, alhamdulillah.  
 
There are people who know my number but do not call.  I have friends from the previous state who  message me or call just to know if I'm still alive.  She refuses to keep a small luggage bag contain my clothes for me. I think I regard friendship differently from most people.  Especially in my situation, I value spontaneous sincere actions than words. Once the spontaneous moments are gone, they are gone forever. 
WALLAHU 'ALAM
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Salaam alaykum

I feel sad for your words, im here for you sister.  I think all the time i wish i had the support or family or friends or someone, to get through the tough daily struggles of life itself.  But what we get is what we get, wishing for more only makes you more sad.  So we know there be someone always on our side, Allah swt.  always willing and ready to listen to our sadness or happiness. 

You know i have much struggles, and some of the closest friends which is two are in the middle east.....and these muslims are my life source, they give such support even from so far away.  So now you have me and also open your mind to friends from other places because you never know where the person who can hold you up when you want to fall........is hiding.  Right...Allah swt brings blessings big and small to us.......and there is many brothers and sisters making dua for us in hard times every second of everyday.  One close brother told me before, millions of muslims be on your side right this minute.  Its so amazing....that we are part of this great ummah.

love and peace my sister
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thank you very much sister, I am hunger for good friends to talk to.  Sure, it is true we all can only depend on ALLAH and so I talk to HIM always (especially I have nobody else). Not just in DOA, also when I feel lonely, depressed, shame or hurt by people's words; when I am cold and tired while using the public transport.

Alhamdulillah, for Muslim, we have guidance by ALLAH's words in the Quran and also the sunnah/hadith.  So many times I picked myself up from the bottom pit of broken heart, by the words of ALLAH and hadith.  But life would be easier or more bearable with the support of friends/family or a good husband, to wipe away my humiliation and help fix my broken heart. 
 
But alhamdulillah through my struggles, I learn about people of different background, status and also about the flow of life (how in certain situations are out of one's control, except ALLAH.)  and so I have to accept QADA.
 
I value your friendship very much alhamdulillah.  thank you for your understanding.


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Salaam alaykum dear sister, im so sorry for this hard times.  you know i have similar situation,just a small different that i am no home and have three kids who need shelter and food everyday.  im here for you dear sister and would like to talk to you anytime.  you know if you have the strength from Allah swt then you can go on and be strong, and this come not by a man but true faith in Allah swt.  I know it so hard, like i said i be in the situation as you, and you know i think we be good friends soon insha Allah.  where in usa are you located?  message me please sister im waiting to hear from you, salaam  Heart
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Asalamu Calykum sis,

It saddens me to hear about the troubles that you are under going. I pray to ALLAH to make your affairs easy and bless you with a job that will do you good both in this world and hereafter. Always remember sis that after difficulty there is w ease.  For now though sis, focus on yourself and building  your life. I would only advice you to take another husband once you have stabilized yourself because nowadays sis you can only count on ALLAH, no one else. Also hope you will be reunited with your family soon as they will giveyou the support that you require. Furthermore, know that life is full of tests, challenges and problems and nowadays everyone is feeling the heat due to the global economic crisis that we are in. Please do update us though on your situation and what we as your sisters on the net can do for you. Wish I was able to help you financially but currently, I am struggling with finding a job as well sis. So may ALLAH bless us all.
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Nobody feels what I am feeling. I have never work in US before.  I am a coward to drive.  I have tried to find job but failed for the last 5 years.  I have ambition but my husband never support me in anything. 
it is correct that only ALLAH can help me. forum is useless.
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 I also agree with Hakeema & Seeja's comments. You need time to heal and get your mind body & soul in order. A man can't do that, May Allah have mercy on you. You have to take baby steps, start with the local human services, even this shelter you are staying in can help get you startd on your jurney. I just want you to know I have been homeless and once I understood what I had to do to make sure that never happened to me again. Granted evey story is different, but you can do this and when you achive what you want you will never have to depened on anyone except trully ALLAH. I know this in my heart. You have a accept responsisablity for your actions. You can change your ceremstances for the better and once you do this you can then stand on your own.

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As-Salaam Alaikum

 I do agree with �Hakeema� comments.
Islam (Total Surrender, Submission, Obedience, Sincerity and Peace with Allah) is for all people, in all places and in all times
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