So lonely on foreign land

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Greetings salwa,

I am sorry to hear of your troubles.  I hope that you can find friends and support, and a way to feel fulfilled and less lonely.
I have heard it said that there is no loneliness worse than feeling lonely in a relationship.  I think we feel all our problems are at an end when we marry.  When we are alone and lonely at least we feel there is something we can do about it.  You need to have that same attitude even though you are married.  Seek things outside yourself... things that serve God.
Blessings and peace to you.

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Masha allah , you are giving great advice. Many times I see brothers and sisters rushing into marriage in order to escape their problems when in fact, marriage will not solve their problems. It is very important for us sisters to have something going on for our self in life before one commits. Often I see sisters giving up everything just because they are getting married when in fact in most cases men in general want to have their own space and time even when they are married and for this reason it is important for sisters to focus on other areas of their life.