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nadeem_aus 
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 Posted: 23 September 2005 at 9:57pm |
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That list is quite exhausting. I think a lot of common sense is really required in relation to a relationship.
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amah
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Posted: 24 March 2006 at 2:15am |
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Umm Ziba
Your "hijacked" article was excellent. Jazakallahukhairan, wish i had found it before i got married, but so what , i can pass it to others Insha Allah. It is definitely important to ask questions before marriage, so that things are clear from the beginning and so that you can place conditions in your marriage contract if necessary. Insha Allah many people might be saved from probable heartache... wassalaam.... |
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Allah is Sufficient as a Walee (Protector) and Allah is Sufficient as a Naseer (Helper).
(Surah An-Nisa, Chapter #4, Verse #45) |
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Mishmish
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Posted: 24 March 2006 at 11:16am |
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Assalamu Alaikum Sisters: The list is very good, but keep in mind that just because you ask the question doesn't mean he will answer 100% honestly. Especially about the abuse issues. It is very difficult for men to admit in a meeting that their father hit their mom, or vice versa, as they might see this as betraying a trust. It is very important to ask around and find out the Brothers standing in the community, etc.... P.S. as far as "cool" movies go, The Matrix was the coolest... |
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It is only with the heart that one can see clearly, what is essential is invisible to the eye. (The Little Prince)
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ak_m_f
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Posted: 24 March 2006 at 12:28pm |
I think it will be eaiser if we print it on paper and make then give this Exam? |
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ofsorts
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Posted: 25 March 2006 at 2:49am |
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Really perfect timing.I was trying to think of questions to ask my future partner as well. |
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amah
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Posted: 25 March 2006 at 8:37am |
Yes, You have mentioned an important point.....what if the person is dishonest?.....hmmm.... |
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Allah is Sufficient as a Walee (Protector) and Allah is Sufficient as a Naseer (Helper).
(Surah An-Nisa, Chapter #4, Verse #45) |
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Angela
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Posted: 08 June 2006 at 1:47pm |
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Here yah go, Schwester. Sister Ummziba always has the nicest threads.
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schwester
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Posted: 10 June 2006 at 11:21pm |
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thank you sunny.
sistas, don't you think that it's better to have some long-term relationship in permitted way before making a decision and thus learn who he is? go his home, see also how he walks into the bathroom, how he cooks, what's like his bedroom, how he behaves among his friends, etc? and, where is the question about virginity?   Edited by schwester |
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