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    Posted: 13 March 2011 at 10:19am
I'm new to this site, and I'm not sure how to quite work it yet, but i have a question. I have a very horrible habit that i want to get rid of. I'm a 17 year old girl and I can not stop masturbating, i started when i was maybe like 12 but i did not know it was wrong, and when i figured out i tried to stop, but i can't. no matter how long i go without it, i always give in.. I don't know what to do anymore.. i feel horrible but i always give into this sin, can anyone please help me?

I don't always watch porn when i do it, but sometimes I do .. Also I will go days and weeks maybe even months without doing it, but then i'll give in and i start to feel hopeless and useless.. please help me.. Also how can i recieve forgiveness for this, i pray and i beg for it but i feel like it's not enough

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Salam,
 
You still young, you have a lot of energy, you can make you busy like sport or other activities, it can reduce yor desire to that "things".
 
Meanwhile you also ask forgiveness for waht you have done and ask His help to avoid that things.
 
 
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote Pati Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: 24 July 2011 at 2:19pm
Originally posted by asssshhhh asssshhhh wrote:

I'm new to this site, and I'm not sure how to quite work it yet, but i have a question. I have a very horrible habit that i want to get rid of. I'm a 17 year old girl and I can not stop masturbating, i started when i was maybe like 12 but i did not know it was wrong, and when i figured out i tried to stop, but i can't. no matter how long i go without it, i always give in.. I don't know what to do anymore.. i feel horrible but i always give into this sin, can anyone please help me?

I don't always watch porn when i do it, but sometimes I do .. Also I will go days and weeks maybe even months without doing it, but then i'll give in and i start to feel hopeless and useless.. please help me.. Also how can i recieve forgiveness for this, i pray and i beg for it but i feel like it's not enough


Hi dear,

You should just look for things that help you to relax: take cold shower, watch a movie without any sexual content, or maybe any other thing, and try not to stay alone, or go outside whenever you feel the "need". You should know that the desire is something normal, and you should learn now on how to control it, waiting for the time to enjoy it with the right person (your husband Wink).

Specially, you should be carefull because too much masturbation on women has some consequences after they start relation with men, specially when the men does not have previous experience. Your body should not "get used" to a quickly pleasure.

We are not animals, dear, and we can control it, be sure. Just use your mind.

If you asked for forgiveness in an honest way, be sure that God will forgive and understand you, and you will be in peace.

Regards and good luck,
Patricia
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You need to do more things like sport or activities that tire you out. If you are active and involved in things you will find less time and less need to do that.
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salam alykum. Inshaallah you should  be in constant wudhu and of course a lot of rememberanc of allah. And most All ask Allah for a Decent Muslim Husband quicly
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The most important thing you do as muslim that i think, recite Quran, try to understand it with authentic tafsir,deep thinking on it, act upon what you read. ALLAH says in the Quran that Quran is the Shifa (healer) for the believers.And obviously,ask ALLAH to help you,ALLAH is the best friend.

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