Sex while being pregnant

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   Salaams,

Yes check with your doctor.. for every woman's pregnancy is different. Your health is what is important.

And sister, as a Muslim we do not believe that Allah would "curse" your child based upon a decision you made.  We do not believe that someone else pays for the sins of another.  You very well not have sex and a medical problem will arise.  And IF something is not "perfect" to think God would curse them really thinks ill of God. 

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Hayfa Members Profile Send Private Message Find Members Posts Add to Buddy List Senior Member Female Joined: 07 June 2005 Location: United States Status: Offline Points: 2368	Post Options Post Reply Quote Hayfa Report Post Thanks(0) Quote Reply Posted: 16 July 2010 at 5:13pm
	Salaams, Yes check with your doctor.. for every woman's pregnancy is different. Your health is what is important. And sister, as a Muslim we do not believe that Allah would "curse" your child based upon a decision you made. We do not believe that someone else pays for the sins of another. You very well not have sex and a medical problem will arise. And IF something is not "perfect" to think God would curse them really thinks ill of God.
	When you do things from your soul, you feel a river moving in you, a joy. Rumi

semar Members Profile Send Private Message Find Members Posts Add to Buddy List Senior Member Male Islam Joined: 11 March 2005 Location: United States Status: Offline Points: 1830	Post Options Post Reply Quote semar Report Post Thanks(0) Quote Reply Posted: 16 July 2010 at 3:34pm
	Assalamu alaikum, Congratulation for the pregnacy. Yes, you can have sex, why not. You and your husband no need to "fast' for the whole 9-10 months because you are pregnant. The only things that you can not to have sex Islamically is when you still have disharge (bleeding) after you deliver the baby. If I am not mistaken, usually about 30-40 days, after you are "clean" again you can start your regular activity. Enjoy!! Edited by semar - 17 July 2010 at 1:10am
	Salam/Peace, Semar "We are people who do not eat until we are hungry and do not eat to our fill." (Prophet Muhammad PBUH) "1/3 of your stomach for food, 1/3 for water, 1/3 for air"

Divya_Mohammed Members Profile Send Private Message Find Members Posts Add to Buddy List Groupie Joined: 14 July 2010 Status: Offline Points: 44	Post Options Post Reply Quote Divya_Mohammed Report Post Thanks(0) Quote Reply Posted: 16 July 2010 at 7:51am
	Assalam Alaikum, I am a new Muslim convert (Earlier I was a Hindu Iyer Brahmin Girl ) for the last 3 months and I am married to a Muslim Man. I am married to him for last 14 months. I am blessed in being pregnant now with twins in my womb and my husband insists for sex each day even now. In my earlier religion it is forbidden to have sex while being pregnant. As a pregnant Muslima now, is it Halal or Haram to accept sex when my husband desires. I am scared whether Allah will curse me and my Muslim family and my muslim children growing within me, if I agree to my husbands sexual advances. If it is my Islamic duty to accept sex from my Muslim husband, I will gladly accept and cooperate with him to enjoy every moment of sex and also give him maximum sexual satisfaction. Thanks to Allah, that in Islam, I realise that the Glorious Muslim Way of Life provides a definitive answers to all questions that arise in human mind. Allah Hafiz Divya Mohammed Iyer