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Pati 
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 Posted: 20 July 2010 at 10:50am |
Hi again, dear,
It's not matter of religion, is matter of life. The wife is from the husband, and opposite, the husband is from the wife. You should never forget it.
Both of you have a duty with the other to satisfice him/her, to understand, to help, to love, and to support over everything. This is the basis of marriage, all matter of love and understanding each other.
If I can help you in any other thing, don't hesitate to ask me
 ... but I will talk just as woman, not as a religious person (Christian, in my case). I believe that God commandements for marriage are the same in all religions. Hugs
Patricia
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Divya_Mohammed
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Posted: 19 July 2010 at 4:00pm |
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Assalam Alaikum
Thank you so much Patricia. Good to have your opinion and advice.
I am only 21 and as such cannot ask my mom, especially after my religious conversion to being a Muslim from being a Hindu. I feel ashamed when I think of asking my in-law. This is a good satisfaction for me3 to know that I have so many people who offer advice with prayers in their lips.
God bless all of you
Allah Hafiz
Divya Mohammed Iyer
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Pati
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Posted: 18 July 2010 at 3:27am |
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Dear, Congratulations for the pregnancy. This is the best of God's gifts for us.
But just a small comment: sex is not a duty, but a right. You should do it whenever you want, and in this moments, you have your right to decide when you want. In case you really feel that you cannot have it for physical reasons, just tell him that you cannot.
And opposite, in case you feel you want it, ask for it, because as wife, it's your right also.
I wish you a happy pregnancy, because as far as I know, it's very special to feel how the life is growing inside you. And actually, you have two lives inside!!! God bless you all.
All the best,
Patricia
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Angel
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Posted: 17 July 2010 at 9:43pm |
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enjoy!
I have to say some positivity around the place! its great to see.
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fais
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Posted: 17 July 2010 at 8:00am |
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Thnx sister, thnx for taking the comments positively,may your children become the blessing for the umma,BIL BARQA Regards |
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Divya_Mohammed
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Posted: 17 July 2010 at 7:01am |
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Assalam Alaikum,
I thank all the people who have encouraged and enhanced my faith in Islamic thought, which is so meaningful at philosophical and practical level.
I am in week-14 second trimester of pregnancy and doctor told me that I am healthy and and my two babies are also healthy and I should take lot pf proteins. I am eating lot of meat beef and fruits vegetables etc.
I will consult doctor also as advised and if she also clears I will not have any worry about having sex with my husband which I feel is a great duty to every muslim woman.
All Praise to Allah always.
Allah Hafiz
Divya Mohammed Iyer
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fais
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Posted: 16 July 2010 at 11:21pm |
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Dear sister, I am happy that you have accepted islam with full heart as most women just accept for their husband sake, there are few things still left in your mind from your previous relegion,get rid of this,like not eating beef and a long list.
when mohammed s.a.w wowed not have honey as it smelled bad to one of his wife on this allah reavealed one ayat translation do not make halal thing haram on you.plz forgive as not exact words from quran but hope u know what i m saying.
It is not good to say no to your husband without any good medical reason,if u not medically fit then obiously u have the excuse and husband should not insist but if there is nothing then its a duty of the wife to please her husband denying to which will get curse from angels whole night if the husband does not forgive.
You are a new muslim and i want you to take this possitively the rules of islam,you do your own reasearch if want as i am not alim but accept it if this there in islam.
hope this helps
dear all correct me if i am wrong
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Faisal
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muslima1
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Posted: 16 July 2010 at 11:18pm |
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Salam Sister,
Congratulations on your pregnancy. As mentioned above, you can have sex with your husband throughout your pregnancy. Now there are some specific sexual activities that are not recommended by doctors, I am not sure if I can write them here, so I would consult your doctor so they give you the specifics or maybe check online. |
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