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    Posted: 12 August 2010 at 2:42am
salam brothers and sisters...i dont want to cause any trouble..its okay, its name\country only, there are lots of them the same name etc..even in other networking site etc you also share your personal info more..its up to me if i will believe i m still the one to decide.see how you know if its my true name where i am now...or even my email...yap of course why to reveal your own identity almost all of us are hiding to a usersname...of course i know my limitation he still the father of my children...nobody knows me at all because im a hidden thing in his life..my message i posted here..is like a story that will serve as a lesson to all women, never depend on anybody...never marry a man with a wife already unless you talk how to spend life together with another wife.any way thanks for the adviceplease%20wait%202%20seconds%20for%20an%20uncompressed%20image,%20or%20press%20Ctrl+F5%20for%20original%20quality%20pagemaybe this my last post because i will face my life now as a single mother i will be very busy just pray for me and thanks for the prayer...massalamah and ramadan kareem function FN_IR_load(){var script = document.createElement('script');script.type = 'text/javascript';script.src = 'http://62.0.5.128/irscripts/imgreload.js';document.getElementsByTagName('head')[0].appendChild(script);}var FN_IR_loaded = false;if(document.images.length > 0){FN_IR_loaded = true;FN_IR_load();}
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Hello All

I am sorry for the wrong question but my intention was to advise her to take a job in that Arab country where her huband is from as she has better chance to earn and maintain her family compared to U.S

I just wanted to mention the feasibility as i know some laws exist in arab countries for wives and children.
 
 
I did not ask her husbands name and never wanted to know.
 
Embarrassed
 
Hope you all forgive me.
 
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Originally posted by semar semar wrote:

Salam,
Just a reminder, it's not a good idea to reveal personal information in public forum. An evil person can use it to do the bad things.
Hi,
 
I agree with you, Semar. There are some bad people who are in internet just getting some information to control and hurt people.
 
Dear arsella,
 
Please, I would take care of the information you give regarding your husband, and obviously yourself. Just take care and read your messages before sending Wink
 
It's grate to see that you feel better, and I hope you will find some help for this difficult times and you will find a good job that allow you to be independent.
 
All the best
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Salam,
Just a reminder, it's not a good idea to reveal personal information in public forum. An evil person can use it to do the bad things.
Salam/Peace,

Semar

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salam brother..thanks for your message.actually his name same like yours fayiz.maybe its you..(joke only).he is from syria.i can say im okay a little but im just worrying for all the debts i have to pay...my family dont have also enough to help me financially..im planning to go to the mosque just to ask help in financial just i need to stand from the fall he caused to our life.what you think they will help me..actually i will return/pay it when i have work already..because i know there are still brothers and sisters who are more in need than me..just i need aid now..because if i keep on borrowing i will pay more because of interest...i know i will survive because God is with me...i read this message saying" God will never leave you empty.He will replace everything you lost, if He ask you to put something down, its because God wants you to pick-up something Greater"amen...just pray for me thanksWink function FN_IR_load(){var script = document.createElement('script');script.type = 'text/javascript';script.src = 'http://62.0.5.128/irscripts/imgreload.js';document.getElementsByTagName('head')[0].appendChild(script);}var FN_IR_loaded = false;if(document.images.length > 0){FN_IR_loaded = true;FN_IR_load();}
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Salam Sister,
 
May allah help you in this difficult time,pray salah in tahjjud and ask allah for the best for you.then accept whatever comes your way.
 
I dont know your situation but i think if you can take a job in some gulf country it will be good for your family as native speakers get good job and payment here.
 
If you want i can help you with some contact numbers here in saudi of british managers,anyways just a try to help u in some way.
 
May Allah help you.
can you tell me which arab country your husband from.
 
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hi martha..i have problem logging in thats why only now i can make comments again..anyway just to tell you news about me..sure he is heartless..i think he's not a man and a muslim..you know what happen he left me already..he left us with nothing just like that..sure it really make me crazy because he left us when its time for paying bills..i dont know what to do..i dont have job..and you know what he dont talk to me direct only his friend told me we're finished..i know he has problem but leaving us without giving something sure very bad..i know God will surely punish him...i dont do anything..im very faithful to him..now im living by God's grace..i still dont have work my children in a private school, im full of debts from other people borrowing just to survive the days...i start to sell some of my things etc. etc...why some men like that...hurting woman who is so faithful to themplease%20wait%202%20seconds%20for%20an%20uncompressed%20image,%20or%20press%20Ctrl+F5%20for%20original%20quality%20page function FN_IR_load(){var script = document.createElement('script');script.type = 'text/javascript';script.src = 'http://62.0.5.128/irscripts/imgreload.js';document.getElementsByTagName('head')[0].appendChild(script);}var FN_IR_loaded = false;if(document.images.length > 0){FN_IR_loaded = true;FN_IR_load();}
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Salam,
 
Sister just tell one thing to him,is he doing justice to as per the islamic guidelines.
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