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dadeA 
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 Topic: sallams...all...newbie...Posted: 16 October 2009 at 8:06pm |
Thanks, I lived in upland california before. |
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Posted: 16 October 2009 at 3:06pm |
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sallams..it shows that you are the most active among the users...and hopefully most experienced and knowledgeble....kindly review my issue..as I want to know what to do...
As a mentioned...my issue is that my husband of about 20yr..made-up a scenerio ...and claims that I am ..bad ..wife and that all those 20yrs. he wasn't happy with me..and our 5children..ranging from college to teens to elementary school....kids and moved us around.....to mid.east to set himself up..for another marriage.....which he did accomplish...
now ..he has gotten the new lady and he has put her in the same house with me and my household. It is so...hard to accept his actions/betral/lies...then to see...him every other night going to her...what should i do...i mean...what is premissible..in Islam..in this regard...?? I really think that he is keeping me to raise our kids...then he will go about his business...with this other lady...
any advice....i mean i am not old...i just turned 40...and the new lady is in her mid thirties..she isn't attractive..but...he is enjoying her..as she is still new....
we used to be able to communicate well....but now...he is building sensitivity towards..what I say, how i say it...and all ...but at the same time he is providing for us...yet..he has me in a cage....sort of...he is providing for me but i am emotionally and internally torn by his actions... |
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sabr99
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Posted: 16 October 2009 at 2:59pm |
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Asallam alaykum..bro. and sis. thanks for all who replied...
I am trying to get a hang of this site...but it seems pretty friendly to use...
I will post my main question under the marriage issues..
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Akhe Abdullah
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Posted: 14 October 2009 at 11:14am |
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Wa Alaikum As Salam Wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatu,DadeA welcome to Icf.My Duahs are with our brthers and sisters there who suffered in the quake.
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seekshidayath
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Posted: 14 October 2009 at 10:45am |
Walaikum Salam wa Rahmatullah dade,
Why is that "Hai", again
 .Anyways, Welcome to the discussions at Islamicity
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Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) said: �All the descendants of Adam are sinners, and the best of sinners are those who repent."
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seekshidayath
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Posted: 14 October 2009 at 10:44am |
Walaikum Salam wa Rahmatullah,
Welcome to the discussions at Islamicity. Wish you a happy stay. You can keep posting at relevants sections.
May Allah guide us upon the straight path - Ameen.
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Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) said: �All the descendants of Adam are sinners, and the best of sinners are those who repent."
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dadeA
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Posted: 13 October 2009 at 9:03pm |
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Assalammu'alaikum
Hai I'am dade from indonesia |
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Akhe Abdullah
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Posted: 13 October 2009 at 4:28pm |
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(Ameen)Wa Aalikum As Salam Wa ramatuAllahi Wa Barakatu,Welcome to the forum. May Allah make this a rewarding experience for you
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