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Hayfa
Senior Member Female Joined: 07 June 2005 Location: United States Status: Offline Points: 2368 |
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Aslama Alaikum Sister,
I am sorry to hear about your situation. My duas for you. I have never been divorced (or married so I have no specific words of advice in that regard. But as Full of Hopes mentioned don't focus on your Ex. Focus on your relationship with Allah. I know from my own personal experience, it is SO hard at time to be 'up' during the times of struggle. Keep up your prayers.. and for me I try to keep up being thankful for all I have. Make a list of ALL you have been given. Some 'big'-like your son, food, the ability to work etc. And sometimes the small.... It has helped me stay positive. Do you family near you? What about friends? I think this is helpful. Come here to Islamicity... be engaged if you can. Also for me, it helps at times to accept where you are at. We are not perfect. You are going through a rough time. Ok. Cry it out sometimes. Sometimes it makes it worse or it doesn't help to fight it all. You work hard, go to work, take care of your child. Its tough. The other day I was very stressed, feeling really low and it helped that I read the Quran. It really did. Your sister in Islam Hayfa |
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When you do things from your soul, you feel a river moving in you, a joy. Rumi
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Full of Hopes
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Asslamu Alikum Wa Rahmatu Allah Dear sister, first you have got a very nice name. May Allah reward you and raise your rank.focus on my words I have done this a lot and never failed to be happy and get what I want. Then get rid of all thoughts of this life and stand for praying just 2 rakats. Get rid of the sad and disappointing thoughts, sweetie. be stronger. I am sure you can do it. My Duaa with you. Please keep in touch. Edited by Full of Hopes - 09 September 2009 at 3:17pm |
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And whoever seeks a religion other than Isl�m, it will never be accepted of him, and in the Hereafter he will be one of the losers(3:85)
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Allah First
Starter Female Joined: 09 September 2009 Location: Canada Status: Offline Points: 11 |
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Asalaam Aleikum dear sisters, I have what is a known common problem. See my husband divorced me and behind my back went and married someone else, close to a year later he told me. Now he's also found his dream job, younger wife and most of what he's worked for and I'm left a single mother raising a kid that he also want to take from me. Since he says he can do a better job at it than me. I haven't any professional training therefore I have to work difficult jobs, send my kids to daycare and watch him having a good time. I know all this is a test from Allah. What I hope someone can give me an answer to is 'when those times creep in, you know! Times where your spirit is just low, everything seems to be a waste of time and that life and people have gotten the best of you'. What do you do in those times, I do dhikr, go to the masjid, listen to lectures but the problem is inside.
I would like advice from someone who's gone through a divorce and not remained bitter. |
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