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Thanks again for all the prayers that you have done for me. I do not believe anything is going to change this
man's decision.... We have a 24 year anniversary on
December 14 this year. I am so hurt and heart broken
and sad today. I know that it will be so difficult for
me on December 14..... I pray for ALLAH to give me
lots of strength on this day..... I know that I will
probably stay in bed crying most of the day.....
May ALLAH bless us and keep us strong in the times of
hardship...............
May ALLAH bless us all..........
Sharon

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Originally posted by sharonjundi sharonjundi wrote:

Thanks again for all the prayers that you have done for me. I do not believe anything is going to change this
man's decision.... We have a 24 year anniversary on
December 14 this year. I am so hurt and heart broken
and sad today. I know that it will be so difficult for
me on December 14..... I pray for ALLAH to give me
lots of strength on this day..... I know that I will
probably stay in bed crying most of the day.....
May ALLAH bless us and keep us strong in the times of
hardship...............
May ALLAH bless us all..........
Sharon [IMG]smileys/smiley19.gif" align="middle" />
As salaamulaikum Sister Sharon Jundi.Crying takes the rust off the heart its okay a wise Imam ounce said.(Alhamduillah) for everything good or bad remember that.Its apart of our short life here on earth.Allah has a cure for your heart ache turn to him.Im sad that you are hurting Try to stay positive on the day of your anniversary take time to reflect on the years Allah have given you two.And again (Alhamduillah)Thank Allah Ta ala for that. Alot of times we never miss the water until the well runs dry.Lets see what happens.Would you be happy if he came over to celebrate we you and still not come back?
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Hello,

No I do not want him to come and celebrate our
anniversary, if he is not coming back.... That
would be so hard for me to move on in my life.
If he loves me, then he will remember this time
and will want to be with me. But, I think that
his mind is somewhere else. I am sure that he
will avoid this day altogether. He was something
in his head that he wants to be alone in his life
at this time. I pray so much, but if ALLAH
wanted us to be together, I think by now something
would have happened to my husband.... and he would
at least try an effort of showing some kind of hope
for us to be together.   His mind is made up....
I feel at this time that he does not want me in his
life at all..... I am so sad..........It has been
6 months now and he has not made any changes to
want to work things out.... I still do not know
what the main reason is that he left, except he
said that he changed. He does not want
me in his life anymore. I need to accept this now
even though it hurts so much, I have to move forward
in my life. No matter how much I cry, I have to make
myself move on in life.........
May ALLAH bless us all and pray that things will
change and maybe my husband will come back.\

Sharon
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Originally posted by abuayisha abuayisha wrote:

 I suggest that you appeal to those who have intimate knowledge of both you and your husband, because at this critical stage in your life reaching out to strangers may not provide needed moral support or assistance in arbitrating a successful resolution to your troubles. 
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I tried with no response.

May ALLAH bless us and keep us save.

I will always love my husband no matter what he is going
through in his life at this time. May ALLAH bring him
home to me...........
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Originally posted by sharonjundi sharonjundi wrote:

I tried with no response.

May ALLAH bless us and keep us save.

I will always love my husband no matter what he is going
through in his life at this time. May ALLAH bring him
home to me...........
                         As Salaamu Alaikum Sister SharonJundi.(Ameen)          Afwan" Sad to hear that.I pray that you are taking care of yourself.Its been a while since your last post.La'alaik"Allahs always there for you put your faith in Allah.
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Glad to hear from you. I am doing ok. I try to stay
busy, but it is so difficult at some times. I get sad
and discouraged at times, but I know that I will be ok.
I know that it was not anything that I did, for him to
leave me. So I pray that maybe someday he will respond
and want to come back home. Thanks again for your reply
and I hope to hear back from you soon. I am so thankful for someone to talk to......
May ALLAH bless us all and keep us safe.

Sharon

Edited by sharonjundi - 14 January 2009 at 2:03pm
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Originally posted by sharonjundi sharonjundi wrote:

Glad to hear from you. I am doing ok. I try to stay
busy, but it is so difficult at some times. I get sad
and discouraged at times, but I know that I will be ok.
I know that it was not anything that I did, for him to
leave me. So I pray that maybe someday he will respond
and want to come back home. Thanks again for your reply
and I hope to hear back from you soon. I am so thankful for someone to talk to......
May ALLAH bless us all and keep us safe.

Sharon
As Salaamu Alaikum Sister SharonJundi.(Ameen)Alhamduillah"You know that you will be ok.Inshallah" you are in my Duas sister, I love you for Allah sake.As always its a pleasure to hear from you.You are a good women, you need to know that always Sister Sharon.I know that you love your husban for Allah sake as if you have no choice in the matter.(Thats Haqq)I pray that Allah will ease your heart of sorrow.I will reply back soon(Inshallah)we all have been waiting to hear back from you,and you know that I will always reply back respectfully,others keep saying talk to the ones who know you best,they forget what you post earlier.So did you ever hit him over the head?
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