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Hayfa 
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 Posted: 05 December 2008 at 6:20pm |
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oh shopping.. .lol
I am impressed that people can do that.. .I am an in and out type of person..
So what do I do, just leave him alone for a long time and let
him sort things out? Can you hit him over the head with a frying pan?? ooops... lol But seriously.. people can be just SO frustrating.. like hello... make a decision and get on with it. hmm maybe the frying pan may work?? Whay do you folks think?
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sharonjundi
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Posted: 05 December 2008 at 8:35pm |
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That is funny. I thought about if someone would just
hit him in the head, maybe he would realize what he is doing, not only to me, but to this sons also. You know, I have decided to just leave him alone..... I am trying to totally cut him out of my life and move on. I am tired of what he has done to me. He just keeps leading me on........ So I told him never to call me or come by anymore. LEAVE ME ALONE.............I told him..... SO lets see what happens now. Sharon  Edited by sharonjundi - 05 December 2008 at 8:37pm |
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Imani
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Posted: 05 December 2008 at 11:56pm |
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hello sharon.
good to hear that from you.
So when you said that to him, did he do any sign of respond. I mean did his action showed that he was pleased with what you said.
Any way we are all looking forward to what happens next.
If he is going to come by to your house.
LoL!
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sharonjundi
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Posted: 06 December 2008 at 6:19am |
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Hello,
His reactions was with anger. He said if I had the money I would have already gotten a divorce. So that is when I told him to never come by the house or call me. I told him then to just leave me alone...... Let him enjoy his life and I will enjoy mine without him.............It has been two days and I have not heard from him.. He does this. And then about 1 week later he usually calls or comes by the house. Let's see what happens this time. I need to stay strong and let it be. Whatever ALLAH wills, then it will happen. I am going shopping today, because that usually helps me to not think about him for a while. Thank you a my ALLAH bless us all. Sharon Edited by sharonjundi - 06 December 2008 at 6:20am |
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abuayisha
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Posted: 06 December 2008 at 6:36am |
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Posted: 06 December 2008 at 7:58am |
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assalamu alaikum you have to define at first the problem .
what make your husband taking the decision to leave you.
did he saw something bad from you?
try to discuss with him to know the problem . may be he misunderstood you on some matters or you are too hard with him on other matters.
from what I see in your post , you really care about him its so nice too see that but you have to show him how much he means for you.
put your beautiful clothes , invite him to a beautiful and calm place and try to discuss with him the matter.tell him how much his kids miss him .
may god help you.
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jhaskell48
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Posted: 06 December 2008 at 8:18am |
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Assalam alaikum Sharon:
I have been following your posts and my heart goes out to you. I also am admiring your strength and your faith in Allah. You can get through this and you will, whatever the outcome. I am going through a terrible time and reading the Qur'an is bringing me an incredible amount of peace and comfort. I am praying for you. Al Bafqarah 2:256 "...whoever rejects evil and believes in Allah hath grasped the most trustworthy Handhold, that never breaks. And Allah heareth and knoweth all things." |
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sharonjundi
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Posted: 06 December 2008 at 3:15pm |
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Hello
I tryed that in the past. We had a great time going out and then all of a sudden he got just decided that when I asked him if he wanted to come home, he said yes and then he never came back. He just calls and does not want to be with me. I know that in the past that he has been stressed with a lot of things in his life. I would say that our relationship with each other was not the same for the past year before he moved out. But then after he moved out, then we started going out every weekend, as if we were on a date. Then after I asked him to come home, he agreed and then when it was time to move back, he avoided me for about 1 week. I do not know what is wrong with this man. I think he is crazy. Mentally ill............ |
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