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Hello again,

I know now that it will be over for my husband and I.
Thanks so much for all your prayers and support....

I really appreciate the effort and support that you
have given me in the past. I now know that ALLAH
does not want us to share our lives together any
more. Thanks again for all the support.

May ALLAH bless us all........
Thanks once again.

Sharon

Edited by sharonjundi - 03 December 2008 at 6:57pm
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Good Afternoon

Thank you for replying back to me. I am trying to be strong now and I do have stronger faith in ALLAH right
now, but sometimes I feel like I am lost and no one can
find me and help me. I have strong faith more than ever.
I will still pray that my husband will come back, but
I just get tired of dealing with this.
My husband avoids me when I ask him any questions about
our relations. Why does he do this?
I know that you said that sometimes people need time to clear
their heads and are stressed out about things. So what
do I do, just leave him alone for a long time and let
him sort things out?
I am getting to impatient now. It has been over 4 months
since he left. Did I do wrong by asking him to give me
an answer on whether he wants a divorce?
Please advise me what I should do.
May ALLAH bless us all and guide us and give us strength
that we indure.

Thanks again for replying back to me.
Sharon

Edited by sharonjundi - 03 December 2008 at 1:49pm
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Originally posted by sharonjundi sharonjundi wrote:

I want to thank you for your prayers and support. I have
had a better weekend. Now, today I am asking my husband
what his intentions are in our relationship... It has
been over 4 months since our seperation. I need to know
what he wants, but I do not feel like it is his decision only to ask for a divorce. Is that correct?
Should it be both of our decisions, or can he make the
decision by himself. I am tired and stressed out over
what he is doing. I do not want this to become a divorce
but what can I do? It seems like he wants to make all
the decisions now. Please tell me is this correct, or
can I dispute it.
I pray to ALLAH for more guidance and let him decide what
is the right thing to do.

Please pray for me and thank you for being so kind and
replying back to me.

ALLAH bless us all and keep us strong and safe in our
lives.

Sharon
As Salaamulaikum.Sister Sharonjundi Im always pleased to hear from you.(Ahamduillah) you had a better weekend.If you are willing to ask a question,then you should be ready for the answer.Weather if you are wiiling to except the answer is another question.How about instead of asking what your husbans intentions are asks is there any chance of reconciliation.I pray that Allah will soften your hearts and your words and no matter what the out come is to be that you two will find peace with eachother and one day reconcile.Regaurdless Sister Sharon remain a good Muslim woman thats what Allah loves.Im sorry if things doesnt turn out the way you want them too.You have to remember (Ahamduillah) for everything good or bad.As for your Questions yes he can.But sister have patience you always say(it seems like he wants a divorce)you should indeed know for sure because he might just wants to be alone.Sometimes people get tired of making choices for more than one person it can seem like your brain is overcrowded.Forgive me for that I just had to give you and example of how I use to feel at times.Dont get discouraged keep faith in Allah and let him be your guide.
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I want to thank you for your prayers and support. I have
had a better weekend. Now, today I am asking my husband
what his intentions are in our relationship... It has
been over 4 months since our seperation. I need to know
what he wants, but I do not feel like it is his decision only to ask for a divorce. Is that correct?
Should it be both of our decisions, or can he make the
decision by himself. I am tired and stressed out over
what he is doing. I do not want this to become a divorce
but what can I do? It seems like he wants to make all
the decisions now. Please tell me is this correct, or
can I dispute it.
I pray to ALLAH for more guidance and let him decide what
is the right thing to do.

Please pray for me and thank you for being so kind and
replying back to me.

ALLAH bless us all and keep us strong and safe in our
lives.

Sharon

Edited by sharonjundi - 01 December 2008 at 3:14pm
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Originally posted by Hayfa Hayfa wrote:

Asalam Akaikum Sharon,
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I just read this thread and my Duas are with you. It is hard to go through these struggles. They are our test. And those who are most devoted get strongly tested!

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Ultimately.. seek to be closer to you Creator. The ONE to whom you shall return. These tests can be hard. Seek Al Wadood.. the Loving One.

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As salaamulaikum Hayfa.Jazakallah Khair for your reply she needs the encouragement.May Allah bless us all and countinue to give us good intentions in our hearts.(Ameen)
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Originally posted by sharonjundi sharonjundi wrote:

I had a good day for Thanksgiving. My husband came over
and ate lunch with me and the boys. I told him earlier
not to come over, and to go and enjoy lunch with him brother and their family. But he chose to come to the
house and eat. I still have mixed feelings on what he
is doing. I pray that he had good intentions on coming
over. He never talks about our relationship. I am
still so confused on his actions lately. Thank you
for all your prayers. I pray ALLAH will still help
me and I hope and pray soon I will receive an answer
on what will happen between my husband and I.

Sharon
As Salaamulaikum Sister Sharon Jundi.(Ahamduillah)You had a good day (Ahamduillah)You had a bad day.Never loose Faith in Allah and you will grow stronger for man will let you down puting your faith in them.Stay focus if its Allahs (SWT)will it will be.
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Asalam Akaikum Sharon,
 
I just read this thread and my Duas are with you. It is hard to go through these struggles. They are our test. And those who are most devoted get strongly tested!
 
Ultimately.. seek to be closer to you Creator. The ONE to whom you shall return. These tests can be hard. Seek Al Wadood.. the Loving One.
 
When you do things from your soul, you feel a river moving in you, a joy. Rumi
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I had a good day for Thanksgiving. My husband came over
and ate lunch with me and the boys. I told him earlier
not to come over, and to go and enjoy lunch with him brother and their family. But he chose to come to the
house and eat. I still have mixed feelings on what he
is doing. I pray that he had good intentions on coming
over. He never talks about our relationship. I am
still so confused on his actions lately. Thank you
for all your prayers. I pray ALLAH will still help
me and I hope and pray soon I will receive an answer
on what will happen between my husband and I.

Sharon

Edited by sharonjundi - 28 November 2008 at 1:51pm
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