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hello sharon.
good to hear that from you.
So when you said that to him, did he do any sign of respond. I mean did his action showed that he was pleased with what you said.
Any way we are all looking forward to what happens next.
If he is going to come by to your house.
LoL!Smile
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That is funny. I thought about if someone would just
hit him in the head, maybe he would realize what he is
doing, not only to me, but to this sons also.
You know, I have decided to just leave him alone.....
I am trying to totally cut him out of my life and move
on.   I am tired of what he has done to me. He just keeps leading me on........
So I told him never to call me or come by anymore.
LEAVE ME ALONE.............I told him.....
SO lets see what happens now.
Sharon   


Edited by sharonjundi - 05 December 2008 at 8:37pm
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oh shopping.. .lol
 
I am impressed that people can do that.. .I am an in and out type of person..
 
So what do I do, just leave him alone for a long time and let
him sort things out?
 
Can you hit him over the head with a frying pan?? ooops... lol  But seriously.. people can be just SO frustrating.. like hello... make a decision and get on with it.  hmm maybe the frying pan may work??  Whay do you folks think?
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Originally posted by sharonjundi sharonjundi wrote:



 I love to go shopping
even if I do not buy anything.
 
Really?Smile
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Originally posted by sharonjundi sharonjundi wrote:

Hello again,

I am trying to keep busy. I have a few friends, but they
are mostly from work. They like to go out to places that
I do not care to go.
I enjoy going out to eat and to the movies.
My son that lives here with me, took me out over the
weekend for lunch and shopping. I love to go shopping
even if I do not buy anything.
I have a grand daughter that is 3 years of age.
Her daddy is from my oldest son Ali.
She brings me lots of joy.
I also have a dog and a cat. They are very special to me. Thank you so much again for all your kindness.
I hope your life is not as sad as mine.
May ALLAH Bless you for being there for me lately.
You have become a good friend for me.......
Thanks again so much for your kindness and I will always
pray that ALLAH gives me more strength and peace from now on........
Sharon
As salaamulaikum Sister Sharon Jundi.(Alhamduillah).Once again I am pleased to hear from you, though sadden by the bad news.(Ahamduillah)You still have some joy in your life,thats great" to know you are not alone.May Allah continue to give you joy in this life and the next.(Inshallah)(Ameen)
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Hello again,

I am trying to keep busy. I have a few friends, but they
are mostly from work. They like to go out to places that
I do not care to go.
I enjoy going out to eat and to the movies.
My son that lives here with me, took me out over the
weekend for lunch and shopping. I love to go shopping
even if I do not buy anything.
I have a grand daughter that is 3 years of age.
Her daddy is from my oldest son Ali.
She brings me lots of joy.
I also have a dog and a cat. They are very special to me. Thank you so much again for all your kindness.
I hope your life is not as sad as mine.
May ALLAH Bless you for being there for me lately.
You have become a good friend for me.......
Thanks again so much for your kindness and I will always
pray that ALLAH gives me more strength and peace from now on........
Sharon

Edited by sharonjundi - 04 December 2008 at 2:24pm
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Originally posted by sharonjundi sharonjundi wrote:

Hello again,

I know now that it will be over for my husband and I.
Thanks so much for all your prayers and support....

I really appreciate the effort and support that you
have given me in the past. I now know that ALLAH
does not want us to share our lives together any
more. Thanks again for all the support.

May ALLAH bless us all........
Thanks once again.

Sharon
As salaamulaikum Sister Sharon Jundi.It's always good to hear from you.I want to know that you are doing good (Inshallah).Hey'If it is Allah(SWT) will then it is.But know that men have there own will and do what they want not what is right by Allah.How are (you) doing?Do you like pets?You need something to keep you occupied,Can you volunteer for anything at your Masjid.I know you have to have at least one friend you never answered that question?No one to talk to in person?
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Originally posted by sharonjundi sharonjundi wrote:

Good Afternoon

Thank you for replying back to me. I am trying to be strong now and I do have stronger faith in ALLAH right
now, but sometimes I feel like I am lost and no one can
find me and help me. I have strong faith more than ever.
I will still pray that my husband will come back, but
I just get tired of dealing with this.
My husband avoids me when I ask him any questions about
our relations. Why does he do this?
I know that you said that sometimes people need time to clear
their heads and are stressed out about things. So what
do I do, just leave him alone for a long time and let
him sort things out?
I am getting to impatient now. It has been over 4 months
since he left. Did I do wrong by asking him to give me
an answer on whether he wants a divorce?
Please advise me what I should do.
May ALLAH bless us all and guide us and give us strength
that we indure.

Thanks again for replying back to me.
Sharon
As Salaamulaikum Sister Sharon Jundi.As always I am Please to hear from you.I am also sad for you, I have prayed much for you lately.My Sister do not get obsessed over this I pray that no one has to ever go through this but it happens.Prophet (SAW)says:Your love for something can make you blind and deaf.Do not loose focus.If your husban no longer wants to be with you.Be the better person,support him and his decission,most divorces leave the man and women bitter at each other. maybe he does not know what he wants.(start with love end with love)It seems that you cant help yourself wanting to know an answer.I know its hard on you my dear sister.May Allah help you through your troubled times and give you strength.
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