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sharonjundi
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Hello,
No I do not want him to come and celebrate our anniversary, if he is not coming back.... That would be so hard for me to move on in my life. If he loves me, then he will remember this time and will want to be with me. But, I think that his mind is somewhere else. I am sure that he will avoid this day altogether. He was something in his head that he wants to be alone in his life at this time. I pray so much, but if ALLAH wanted us to be together, I think by now something would have happened to my husband.... and he would at least try an effort of showing some kind of hope for us to be together. His mind is made up.... I feel at this time that he does not want me in his life at all..... I am so sad..........It has been 6 months now and he has not made any changes to want to work things out.... I still do not know what the main reason is that he left, except he said that he changed. He does not want me in his life anymore. I need to accept this now even though it hurts so much, I have to move forward in my life. No matter how much I cry, I have to make myself move on in life......... May ALLAH bless us all and pray that things will change and maybe my husband will come back.\ Sharon |
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Akhe Abdullah
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sharonjundi
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Thanks again for all the prayers that you have done for me. I do not believe anything is going to change this
man's decision.... We have a 24 year anniversary on December 14 this year. I am so hurt and heart broken and sad today. I know that it will be so difficult for me on December 14..... I pray for ALLAH to give me lots of strength on this day..... I know that I will probably stay in bed crying most of the day..... May ALLAH bless us and keep us strong in the times of hardship............... May ALLAH bless us all.......... Sharon Edited by sharonjundi - 09 December 2008 at 2:02pm |
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Hayfa
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Hi sharon,
My Duas are with you..it is hard.. and that's all we can do is lean on Allah and take it day by day...
Hayfa
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When you do things from your soul, you feel a river moving in you, a joy. Rumi
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sharonjundi
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I had a better day today.... I still cry on the way home from work each day, but I am getting better. I know that ALLAH is watching over me everyday and that in time I will be ok. I still miss my husband, but by the strength of ALLAH, I am getting a little better each and everyday. I pray everyday and hopefully things will change. I know in my heart that if it be ALLAH's Will for my husband to come back, that it will happen. I am not duelling on it like I used to in the past. I am moving forward each and every day.... It is still very hard to do, but I have no other choice in life, but to try to accept what has happened and move forward........ It is easy to say this, but in reality, it is so....... hard to do....... Please keep praying for me, that things will change in my life and if it is ALLAH's will, then it will happen soon............. Bring my husband back or either make me such a strong person to keep on going in my life..... May ALLAH bless us all and keep us strong and safe in this lifetime.. Sharon Edited by sharonjundi - 08 December 2008 at 1:45pm |
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Hayfa
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You know, I a taking this class for certification. And you know some of the method defies my logic.. it really does... noty to go into it.. but at times we must laugh at the absurdities of our lives.
I am a very serious, intense person and I MUST make efforts to laugh.. really just look at life. We humans do the most absurd things.. we are often so self-absorbed we forget to take a step back and reflect. How often do we focus on the innane-meaningless stuff???
I mean really, how many of us are running around in silly, often mindless circles?? I am not talking about those who face serious struggle.. but how often do we make our own lives harder..
i say tell him the bus is going, are you on or off.. if not see ya later..
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When you do things from your soul, you feel a river moving in you, a joy. Rumi
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sharonjundi
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I will get out the frying pan.......Ha Ha Will that
knock some sense back in him.... I doubt it with this man. He has his mind up that he wants to alone in this time of his life. So I will just leave him alone........... |
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