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   salam. 
please take the advice abuayisha has given you.
It is the best thing to do right know.
 This is a critical Family matter so dont go for the advice of strangers.
 Think wise. May the peace of ALLAH be with you.
                                                                             Was'salam.

Edited by Imani - 03 November 2008 at 11:49pm

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Imani Members Profile Send Private Message Find Members Posts Add to Buddy List Groupie Joined: 21 October 2008 Location: Saudi Arabia Status: Offline Points: 92	Post Options Post Reply Quote Imani Report Post Thanks(0) Quote Reply Posted: 03 November 2008 at 11:46pm
	salam. please take the advice abuayisha has given you. It is the best thing to do right know. This is a critical Family matter so dont go for the advice of strangers. Think wise. May the peace of ALLAH be with you. Was'salam. Edited by Imani - 03 November 2008 at 11:49pm
	"But those who believe and do righteous deeds are the best of all creatures."(surah98:7) peace for all peace for the nation. To Allah indeed we are to return. SALAM

abuayisha Members Profile Send Private Message Find Members Posts Add to Buddy List Senior Member Muslim Joined: 05 October 1999 Location: Los Angeles Status: Offline Points: 5105	Post Options Post Reply Quote abuayisha Report Post Thanks(0) Quote Reply Posted: 03 November 2008 at 6:10pm
	I suggest that you appeal to those who have intimate knowledge of both you and your husband, because at this critical stage in your life reaching out to strangers may not provide needed moral support or assistance in arbitrating a successful resolution to your troubles.

sharonjundi Members Profile Send Private Message Find Members Posts Add to Buddy List Newbie Joined: 03 November 2008 Location: United States Status: Offline Points: 34	Post Options Post Reply Quote sharonjundi Report Post Thanks(0) Quote Reply Posted: 03 November 2008 at 2:18pm
	Good Afternoon I really need help. I have been been with my husband for 28 years, and he left me without saying a word. He got an apartment and moved out. I know we had problems like every married couple. But I am in desperate help to get him back. I love him very much and want him home. I believe in Allah and pray all day and night to find the answer. How can he do this to me, and I forgave him for leaving, but he says he wants to be by himself and live his life. I cry all the time and pray to Allah that he will want me back. I need a lot of help from someone with answers why he would do this and not want me. I can not live without him. I know that if I have to, I will survive, but it just hurts so much that I want to die. I do not believe in suicide, so I would never take my own life, but I need to find out somehow I can go on with my life, or is their some miracle that can happen to help me. Do all men go through a mid life ordeal and leave like this and tell us that they are unhappy. Why are Allah's words on this in the Quran. Please help me.