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Shasta'sAunt 
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According to RAINN Every two minutes a woman is sexually assaulted in the U.S.73% of the victims knew their attacker
15% of the victims were under the age of 12, nearly 30% between the ages of 5 and 7
There is nothing sexually alluring about a 5 year old child. Rape is a crime of violence and opportunity, not sexual attraction.
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Miechel
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Posted: 24 October 2008 at 5:39am |
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Sexy school uniform is not good for student..It encouraged for rape...
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Israfil
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Posted: 17 September 2008 at 7:51pm |
Good post Hayfa. I have to concur with the above.
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Hayfa
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Posted: 17 September 2008 at 1:26pm |
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I do not think the dress code has much to do with safety...
As far as assaults that happen, easily 66% of attacks against women are committed by someone they know.. it has to do with opportunity.
Now for other cases they did research on people in prison and showed them clips of women walking and what would "inspire" them to assault a woman. Some main points are:
1. not walking with a confident, athletic gait
2. are you distracted-talking on phone, etc
3. are you walking naturally, not awkwardly
4. how aware you appear of your surroundings
5. are you acting scared or afraid
6. if you show lmitiations-high heels, tight clothes may be one, or carrying bags is another.
No where in all the research my Director and teacher has done, having taught self-defense for over 40 years does say, not covering one's hair cause men to attack.
Crimes are often a product of opportunity. Edited by Hayfa - 17 September 2008 at 9:33pm |
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Ron Webb
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Posted: 16 September 2008 at 7:28pm |
I think the skirt is a bit short for a Muslim country, though that might just be how the girls in the picture are wearing it. Otherwise there's nothing "sexy" about it.
I think modesty is culturally relative. Women should dress modestly according to local standards, which would mean very different things in different regions.
I would be interested if anyone has any statistics or other information about whether wearing hijab in a Western country actually makes women safer and less likely to be sexually harassed or attacked. I suspect not -- it draws attention to them, and it's probably a "kink" for a great many perverts. It seems to me that it would be better just to blend into the crowd. But I could be wrong.
(And for the record, I'm not Muslim.)
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Gabriela
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Posted: 16 September 2008 at 6:27pm |
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You are righ, there are man who impose repressive attitude on woman but that is against the Islam. In contrast with Pauls teachings in Corintians, In our religion, we know that Allah made us equal. And we are all equaly responsible for our sins and equaly rewarded for our good deeds. Allah ordered modesty and lowering the gaze for both. |
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Posted: 16 September 2008 at 5:50pm |
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I think we (Muslims) need to know the difference between etiquette and respect. Modest Dress is more along the lines of etiquette than respect although modesty gains respect, it itself is not respect. For example a woman who wears a long dress that is not revealing is modest dress, but if she dresses for religious reasons it doesn't automatically amount to respect because any person can dress modest and still be evil or capable of acting immodest. I am also of the opinion (sorry ladies) that modest dress produces absolute safety for women. there have been reports of Afghanistanian women being raped pre-colonial invasion of America. In a country that is ultra-conservative that alone should be some evidence. Women can still be raped, sexuall abused, assaulted veen if all of their parts are covering. Although among the religious followers modest dress is respected, women shouldn't assumed that all men will respect them. Respect for one another is normally taught and learned it is not automatic regardless whether you are Muslim or not.
In today's age we live in a world of patriarchy and this report (and I mentioned before) is no surprise to me. It is always the woman's fault if men are attracted to her, or it's always the men's fault for her dress. This is just anotgher excuse to put fear and repressive attitudes in women. This is another way some men control women.
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Posted: 16 September 2008 at 4:15pm |
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Here are some examples from the New Tetsment about a dress code:
"I also want women to dress modestly, with decency and propriety, not with braided hair or gold or pearls or expensive clothes, but with good deeds, appropriate for women who profess to worship God." (NIV, 1 Timothy 2:9-10)
"Your beauty should not come from outward adornment, such as braided hair and the wearing of gold jewelry and fine clothes. Instead, it should be that of your inner self, the unfading beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is of great worth in God's sight. For this is the way the holy women of the past who put their hope in God used to make themselves beautiful. "(NIV, 1 Peter 3:2-5) "Any man who prays or prophesies with something on his head disgraces his head, but any woman who prays or prophesies with her head unveiled disgraces her head--it is one and the same thing as having her head shaved. For if a woman will not veil herself, then she should cut off her hair; but if it is disgraceful for a woman to have her hair cut off or to be shaved, she should wear a veil. For a man ought not to have his head veiled, since he is the image and reflection of God; but woman is the reflection of man." (NRSV, 1 Corinthians 11:4-7) |
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