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 Posted: 15 April 2012 at 10:25pm |
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Ron Webb wrote:
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It has been 22 months since the start of this thread you did not work on finding a woman to settle down! Why not? you are working you have no excuse if system is demanding the normal sexual outlet! |
This is spectacularly bad advice (even from you, Sign*Reader). Urging a young man to rush into marriage regardless of whether he is emotionally or financially ready for such a commitment, instead of waiting to find a truly compatible match and building a stable and loving relationship beforehand, is about the worst suggestion I can think of.
Masturbation has absolutely nothing to do with chastity. It is not mentioned in the Quran or the Hadith, and it harms no one, so I don't see why it should be a sin. On the contrary, if it can save a young person from rushing into a loveless, ill-considered marriage, which can can do serious harm not just to the unfortunate couple but (even worse) to any children that might arise, then IMHO it should be regarded as a sacrament. |
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I love your lashing out on my recommendation  without considering the extenuating circumstances!
My advice was based on domicile of the subject i.e., Iran, with mullah rule how he is going to fulfill "a stable and loving relationship beforehand"? If caught in that situation he would end up in hot water!
Did you think about that situation?
Islamic marriage is a contract not a love affair... you might like to know!
The high divorce rate in the west doesn't reflect guarantees on continuity of that feigned love based on the premarital carnal desire! Just look at lives of Clintons and Gores for example...Say it again, why did they marry?
And that sacrament part is a stretch...LOL
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I think mostly men are replying on this topic..I am a married woman,married for more than 10 years. Sexual relations with my husband have always been difficult. He does not enjoy it,and now refuse's be intimate with me in that way. I am very healthy and fit,and I find the need for him frustrating to me because he refuse's me this part of our marriage.So,I have been encouraged by my sisters to 'take care of myself',so I won't feel nervous about this part of our marriage that is non-existent. Divorce is not an option I wish to think about. Despite this problem in our marriage,we love each other. I am a good Muslim woman and although the thought has crossed my mind,I can not bring myself to seek out another man to fill this wanting in me for my husband.
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Posted: 06 April 2011 at 2:20pm |
abosait wrote:
pure_columbian wrote:
abosait wrote:
pure_columbian wrote:
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... Being cautious not to develop any of the medical symptoms that may result from masturbation such as weak eyesight, weak nervous system, and/or back pain. More importantly, feeling of guilt and anxiety that can be complicated by missing obligatory prayers because of the need to shower (ghusl) after every incidence of masturbation.
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Msturbation makes you blind???????? really????? Can't be true or most teenagers would be walking around with the aid of a white stick. [IMG]http://www.islamicity.com/forum/smileys/smiley4.gif" height="17" width="17" align="absmiddle" alt="Big%20smile" />
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Is a weak eyesight the same as blindness? |
More a sign that one needs to slow down on the frequency of masturbation, lol
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So you believe in poor eyesight as one of the effects of masturbation! |
lol, poor eyesight is more a sign of something being wrong with the eyes than what one does with ones hands and the gentilia
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Posted: 06 April 2011 at 10:08am |
pure_columbian wrote:
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pure_columbian wrote:
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... Being cautious not to develop any of the medical symptoms that may result from masturbation such as weak eyesight, weak nervous system, and/or back pain. More importantly, feeling of guilt and anxiety that can be complicated by missing obligatory prayers because of the need to shower (ghusl) after every incidence of masturbation.
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Msturbation makes you blind???????? really????? Can't be true or most teenagers would be walking around with the aid of a white stick. [IMG]http://www.islamicity.com/forum/smileys/smiley4.gif" height="17" width="17" align="absmiddle" alt="Big%20smile" />
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Is a weak eyesight the same as blindness? |
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More a sign that one needs to slow down on the frequency of masturbation, lol
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So you believe in poor eyesight as one of the effects of masturbation!
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Posted: 03 March 2011 at 12:34am |
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pure_columbian wrote:
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... Being cautious not to develop any of the medical symptoms that may result from masturbation such as weak eyesight, weak nervous system, and/or back pain. More importantly, feeling of guilt and anxiety that can be complicated by missing obligatory prayers because of the need to shower (ghusl) after every incidence of masturbation.
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Msturbation makes you blind???????? really????? Can't be true or most teenagers would be walking around with the aid of a white stick. [IMG]http://www.islamicity.com/forum/smileys/smiley4.gif" height="17" width="17" align="absmiddle" alt="Big%20smile" />
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Is a weak eyesight the same as blindness? |
More a sign that one needs to slow down on the frequency of masturbation, lol
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Posted: 28 February 2011 at 7:54pm |
pure_columbian wrote:
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... Being cautious not to develop any of the medical symptoms that may result from masturbation such as weak eyesight, weak nervous system, and/or back pain. More importantly, feeling of guilt and anxiety that can be complicated by missing obligatory prayers because of the need to shower (ghusl) after every incidence of masturbation. |
Msturbation makes you blind???????? really????? Can't be true or most teenagers would be walking around with the aid of a white stick. [IMG]http://www.islamicity.com/forum/smileys/smiley4.gif" height="17" width="17" align="absmiddle" alt="Big%20smile" />
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Is a weak eyesight the same as blindness?
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Posted: 10 February 2011 at 2:58am |
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...........So how can we quite it now because its temptating to control.............. |
6) Being cautious not to develop any of the medical symptoms that may result from masturbation such as weak eyesight, weak nervous system, and/or back pain. More importantly, feeling of guilt and anxiety that can be complicated by missing obligatory prayers because of the need to shower (ghusl) after every incidence of masturbation.
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Msturbation makes you blind???????? really????? Can't be true or most teenagers would be walking around with the aid of a white stick. 
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Posted: 10 February 2011 at 2:52am |
Gibbs, i suppose it could hurt your body if you were driving at the same time or using some kind of power tool 
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Posted: 09 February 2011 at 6:44am |
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Masturbation is bad because it hurts your body? Who came up with that dumb advice?
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