For muslim brother how to be gentle with wife?

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      Assalamu aleikum Ya rahmatullahi ya barakatuh!
3. Be Gentle
4. Advice her in privacy
5. Be Generous
6. "Let her have the seat"
7. Avoid Anger (eg. wudu)
8. Looking Good, Smelling Great
9. Don't be Rigid (eg. I'm a man)
10. Be a good listener
11. Yes to flattering, no arguing
12. Call Wife with best names
13. Pleasant Surprise
14. Preserve the Time
15. Expect & Accept Shortcomings
16. Say Thanks, Appreciate
17. Encourage to be kind to kin
18. Speak about her topic of interest
19. Show that she is wonderful infront of her Family
20. Give each other Gifts
21. Get rid of rust/routine (eg. vacation)
22. Think good of her
23. Pretend you don't see small problem
24. Drop of Patience (eg. during period, pregnant)
25. Expect & Respect Jealousy
26. Be Humble
27. Don't make home miserable
28. Help out at home
29. Help her to respect parents
30. Make her feel she is ideal wife
31. Remember Wife in Dua
32. Leave alone her past (eg. negative event)
33. Don't show her that you are doing her a favour
34. Satan is the enemy, not the wife
35. Place food in her mouth (in intimacy)
36. Protect her from the envy like a Pearl
37. Show her your Pearls (eg. smile)
38. Deal with small matters
39. Avoid being harsh/moody
40. Respect her thinking
41. Help her to dig within to discover skills/success
42. Respecting intimate relationship and boundries
43. Help her to take care of your children
44. Gifts of Tongue (eg. sweet talk etc)
45. Sit and eat with her
46. Let her know if you are travelling, leaving/coming
47. Don't just leave home for no reason
48. Keep the secrecy
49. Encouraging worship
50. Know her rights, not just from the paper
51. Be the best for your wife in good/bad times
52. Kiss your wife, it's the messenger
53. Don't share disputes with others
54. Care for her health
55. Realize your not perfect or always right
56. Share happiness/sadness
57. Have mercy on her in weakness/strength
58. Let be the one to lean on
59. Accept her as-is
60. Have good intention for wife all-times 

Edited by yasmina - 26 July 2008 at 1:10pm

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yasmina Members Profile Send Private Message Find Members Posts Add to Buddy List Starter Joined: 30 June 2008 Location: Kazakhstan Status: Offline Points: 17	Post Options Post Reply Quote yasmina Report Post Thanks(0) Quote Reply Topic: For muslim brother how to be gentle with wife? Posted: 26 July 2008 at 1:08pm
	Assalamu aleikum Ya rahmatullahi ya barakatuh! 3. Be Gentle 4. Advice her in privacy 5. Be Generous 6. "Let her have the seat" 7. Avoid Anger (eg. wudu) 8. Looking Good, Smelling Great 9. Don't be Rigid (eg. I'm a man) 10. Be a good listener 11. Yes to flattering, no arguing 12. Call Wife with best names 13. Pleasant Surprise 14. Preserve the Time 15. Expect & Accept Shortcomings 16. Say Thanks, Appreciate 17. Encourage to be kind to kin 18. Speak about her topic of interest 19. Show that she is wonderful infront of her Family 20. Give each other Gifts 21. Get rid of rust/routine (eg. vacation) 22. Think good of her 23. Pretend you don't see small problem 24. Drop of Patience (eg. during period, pregnant) 25. Expect & Respect Jealousy 26. Be Humble 27. Don't make home miserable 28. Help out at home 29. Help her to respect parents 30. Make her feel she is ideal wife 31. Remember Wife in Dua 32. Leave alone her past (eg. negative event) 33. Don't show her that you are doing her a favour 34. Satan is the enemy, not the wife 35. Place food in her mouth (in intimacy) 36. Protect her from the envy like a Pearl 37. Show her your Pearls (eg. smile) 38. Deal with small matters 39. Avoid being harsh/moody 40. Respect her thinking 41. Help her to dig within to discover skills/success 42. Respecting intimate relationship and boundries 43. Help her to take care of your children 44. Gifts of Tongue (eg. sweet talk etc) 45. Sit and eat with her 46. Let her know if you are travelling, leaving/coming 47. Don't just leave home for no reason 48. Keep the secrecy 49. Encouraging worship 50. Know her rights, not just from the paper 51. Be the best for your wife in good/bad times 52. Kiss your wife, it's the messenger 53. Don't share disputes with others 54. Care for her health 55. Realize your not perfect or always right 56. Share happiness/sadness 57. Have mercy on her in weakness/strength 58. Let be the one to lean on 59. Accept her as-is 60. Have good intention for wife all-times Edited by yasmina - 26 July 2008 at 1:10pm

Chrysalis Members Profile Send Private Message Find Members Posts Add to Buddy List Senior Member Joined: 25 November 2007 Status: Offline Points: 2033	Post Options Post Reply Quote Chrysalis Report Post Thanks(0) Quote Reply Posted: 29 July 2008 at 1:30pm
	A refreshing change from the so-oft crash-courses we get on how to be a good little wife . . . (no offence to any of those who did post things like that! Just saying.) Thankyou. Edited by Chrysalis - 29 July 2008 at 1:31pm
	"O Lord, forgive me, my parents and Muslims in the Hereafter. O Lord, show mercy on them as they showed mercy to me when I was young."