Love and Religion conflicts=help!

It is interesting if one believes that Jesus was/is God and he will return. So in fact then what one is saying is that "God" will return on earth. Which can seem odd to anyone who believes that God is All Knowing, All Seeing.

Muslims believe that Jesus was will return. But not as "God." Gods has no reason to "return", for God does not "leave." The implications are rather interesting.

Have you read the 99 Names of Allah. There are more. None are more important than others. But having read and worked to memorize them in order to reflect.. they demonstrate how beyond us Allah/God is. Each of us is a speck of dust in the cosmos. God would have no purpose to return to something.

Most Muslim families work together. But there is a definite structure.  But ultimately someone may have to make the tough, final decision.  Also, another aspect, I forgot to mention is that peace in the home and so yes, often someone must "give in" in an argument and to bring things to a close.  Any good leader listens to people. A husband who does not listen to his wife is really, at times, a  fool. It is like any good leader of a "team" knows how to involve people and make their views heard.

And yes, women are asked to "give in" ultimately.   It is interesting to me because this can come down to physiology. Men are more competitive. Men actually, often have fragile egos. Yes it is hidden. They are not different than women. Men often need to feel �strong.�  

I know a woman who is married and they have two kids. And having watched their dynamic, women no longer know what they want in a man. They want to be in charge, yet they want the guy to be �manly� and take charge� and many marriages fail over the petty stuff, like the color of the paint on the living room walls! st**id stuff.

And yes, becoming a Muslim and thinking of being �obedient� to a guy was a bit weird.. probably cause we are raised to be independent now. But really, I don�t argue much anyways.. so who cares about the petty stuff..  Both partners will yield ultimately. But how each does it may be different.