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allybally ![]() Starter ![]() ![]() Joined: 10 February 2009 Location: United Kingdom Status: Offline Points: 2 |
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![]() p.s Anything you can say to me here will be of great help I thank you in advance of your replys.
best wishes to you all
Allyson
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semar ![]() Senior Member ![]() ![]() Male Islam Joined: 11 March 2005 Location: United States Status: Offline Points: 1830 |
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Salam,
You should left him and report to police. An abuse man should not have a wife and children. He should go to anger management class, before he fully cure he should not re-marriage.
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Salam/Peace,
Semar "We are people who do not eat until we are hungry and do not eat to our fill." (Prophet Muhammad PBUH) "1/3 of your stomach for food, 1/3 for water, 1/3 for air" |
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abuayisha ![]() Senior Member ![]() ![]() Muslim Joined: 05 October 1999 Location: Los Angeles Status: Offline Points: 5105 |
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This may indeed be normal behavior for someone who was abused as a child, or one who hates women, but it is not normal for the Islamic faith. I agree with Semar, you should press charges and leave this man before his kills you.
Edited by abuayisha - 10 January 2011 at 2:02pm |
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Hayfa ![]() Senior Member ![]() ![]() Female Joined: 07 June 2005 Location: United States Status: Offline Points: 2368 |
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I agree with the brothers.. why WOULD you trust him? Actions speak louder than words. The trust has been broken. People who chronically abuse anyone else has way deeper issues then you will ever know. Yes he wants you to "love him" and he "loves you." Love is not a fist or hand or a bruise dear sister. A woman should be safe in her home. Sadly for thousands of women all over the world, this is not the case.
Ongoing violence is an individual problem, not a cultural or a religious one. Whoever told you that is WRONG. I teach self-defense and have met plenty of women who have been assaulted whose abuser or attacker are not Muslim. That is a stereotype... anyone who says this is really off base and not know what they are talking about. I am sure in the UK they have plenty of statistics of women who are abused. I would also encourage you to get counseling for yourself. You need support. You also need to understand why you would put yourself into harms way again and again. Sister you deserve way better. You are a human being. You must love yourself more. It may take awhile but you need to find you, and yourself, seek to have your needs met. It is not easy and its PAINFUL. But you are worth it dear sister. Also please go to this site by Gavin DeBecker, one of the leading experts on violence, its called Mosiac Threat Assessment. https://www.mosaicmethod.com/ Please keep us posted and feel free to PM me. My prayers for you Hayfa Edited by Hayfa - 11 January 2011 at 12:21pm |
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When you do things from your soul, you feel a river moving in you, a joy. Rumi
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pure_columbian ![]() Groupie ![]() Male Joined: 31 December 2010 Location: United Kingdom Status: Offline Points: 74 |
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Salam
This is not the behaviour of a muslim or a christian or an atheist or a jew, it is the behaviour of a bully.
My advice to you would be to get as far away from him as you possibly can and never look back. NO man should ever raise his fist against a woman!
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tiger ![]() Starter ![]() Joined: 07 May 2011 Location: United Kingdom Status: Offline Points: 6 |
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I completly agree with what evry one above have said.
You need to get away as far away as possible from your husband.
Could you please update what you decided to do,and i pray you have recovered.
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iec786 ![]() Senior Member ![]() ![]() Joined: 06 February 2012 Status: Offline Points: 508 |
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This is abuse when will you leave him ????
The day he kills you? |
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