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Imani
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salam sharon.
Your emotions are very strong. Do not let your heart take control over you.
Please be focused in life. Be very ready for any change in life. Remember that we can not always have what we want. Dont try to build castles in the air. It is definately in possible to do that.
Let ALLAH get absolute control over you and your affairs. What ever the result may be do not be sad or worried although it hirts.
Your husband is being nice to you because he knows his role in this matter of yours. So dont be overwhelmed by his actions.
I do not know you but i must say that you are a very soft person as far as emotions are concerned.
So please wake up for yourself and your boys.
Be ever ready for any change in life.
Life is full of agonies and sorrow. Inshalla if you are able to over come them you will gain a handsome reward from ALLAH.
Tell yourself that you can live with or without him with the help and mercy of ALLAH.
Stay blessed and may ALLAH bestow his mercy upon you always. Amen! Edited by Imani - 26 November 2008 at 1:36am |
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"But those who believe and do righteous deeds are the best of all creatures."(surah98:7)
peace for all peace for the nation. To Allah indeed we are to return. SALAM |
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sharonjundi
Newbie Joined: 03 November 2008 Location: United States Status: Offline Points: 34 |
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Hello again
I am giving up on the relationship with my husband and I. I think it is a losing battle for me. I have to move on in my life and take care of myself. I am getting sick with my nerves over this. I believe ALLAH will help me at this time, but I need to realize that my husband does not love me and want to be with me. So I need to be strong and just say that it is over. It hurts so much to give up on him, but I will be crazy if I do not give up. I always believed that we all have a soulmate in life but I guess I lost mine. May ALLAH bless us all. I will pray to ALLAH to give me the strength and the guidance and to keep the faith strong in my life. Sharon Edited by sharonjundi - 26 November 2008 at 5:13am |
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Akhe Abdullah
Senior Member Male Joined: 19 November 2008 Location: United States Status: Offline Points: 1252 |
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As salaamulaikum Sister Sharon Jundi.As always im very pleased to hear from you sister.You and your family are in my prayers much lately.It is o.k that he is being nice.These things are very complicated for both of you and he knows that you hurt.It seems that you are coming to realize that the end of you two is near?Im so sorry for that,but know that Allah is Most Gracious Most MercifullYou must seek Him for strength.Your husban is nice because it is what Allah wants read Surah 2 221-232 it is where Allah speaks of marriage and divorce,and what a man and women should do.I never received an answer for do you have any wali?If not that I will be.May Allah except our intentions.
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Akhe Abdullah
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Edited by Akhe Abdullah - 26 November 2008 at 4:58pm |
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abuayisha
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Is this a fiqh position Akhe Abdullah?
What is the relevance in knowing her age? |
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Akhe Abdullah
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Surah 2 Ayat 224-227 Bismilla ARahman ARahim And make not Allah's (name) an excuse In your oaths against Doing good,or acting rightly,Or making peace Between persons; For Allah is One Who heareth and knoweth All things. Allah will not Call you to account For thoughtlessness In your oaths, But for the intention In your hearts,And He is Oft-Forgiving, Most Forbearing. For those who take An oath for Abstention From their wives,A waiting for four months Is ordained; If then they return, Allah is Oft-Forgiving,Most Merciful. But if their intention Is firm for divorce, Allah heareth And Knoweth all things.
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sharonjundi
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Hello again,
Thank you so much for your kindness. I feel like I need a lot of prayer at this time and I will always pray for ALLAH to make me stronger everyday and that you will continue to pray for me and my husband at this time. I need the strength from ALLAH more than ever in my life. I will pray that things will be ok for me now. I will try to live my life like ALLAH wants me to and that someday I will be a stronger person and live my life, either with my husband or by myself. Please continue to pray for me. Thank you so much for being their for me lately. May ALLAH bless us and keep us all safe and stronger each day of our lives. Sharon Edited by sharonjundi - 26 November 2008 at 8:02pm |
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