need halal hobbies ( no nerdy hobbies pls)
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Topic: need halal hobbies ( no nerdy hobbies pls)
Posted By: imranjaved
Subject: need halal hobbies ( no nerdy hobbies pls)
Date Posted: 13 March 2015 at 10:44am
So understand me first before I just had to reset one more time meaning every now and then I go through a phase where I try to become accurate Muslim but then I fall off into boredom which makes me go to clubbing, if not then I skeet once in a while n fall off in guilty state n then I smoke weed to release my stress....so the other day i was reading quran tafseer it had me feeling so humble specially I was stressing the whole day...so I'm tired of my old haram life....for years n its like that every time...I have like seasons for islam n season for haram.I mean its like a loser feeling first falling into hypocrisy then what's worse is when u go beyond the hypocricy don't even bother u.this is where I fall off
I make a beautiful schedule then it misses hobbies by massive amount....other then namaz and work n eat what other hobbies can I have that keep me into it n not go to weed or the clubs
Please please dont tell me to get married...because I just got rejected from somebody and Its very tough to erase her out n hard to be intrested In any other women i don't wanna get married till im ballin n mid 30s period....
n no I don't like the online desperate sites and rishtaa maker sounds like I have no game or those womens are not attractive or divorced
"All I'm asking for halal cool hobbies such as ps4 which I'm going to get this month inallah"
No hiking bs
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Posted By: abc 123
Date Posted: 14 March 2015 at 10:20pm
welcome Imran,..
find a good group of Muslims, and keep company with them
Gracious God say, in sora alKahf :
"28) And keep yourself patient [by being] with those who call upon their Lord in
the morning and the evening, seeking His countenance.
And let not your eyes pass beyond them, desiring adornments of the worldly life,
and do not obey one whose heart We have made heedless of Our remembrance
and who follows his desire and whose affair is ever [in] neglect."
best wishes.
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Posted By: abuayisha
Date Posted: 15 March 2015 at 11:37am
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Imran, welcome! Sadly, the internet, gaming, pornography, masturbation, and drugs have become the new normal for far too many young men. Many have become trapped in a cycle of addictive behaviors that prevent proper maturation into responsible adulthood. Normal everyday life is filled with stress and the most unproductive way to deal with life stress is using drugs and alcohol. By doing so, you will always remain a kid mentally and emotionally. How about reading, walking or exercise? What about pursuing an advanced degree? Volunteer some of your boring hours doing something useful for others. Think of business based "hobbies" that may one day flourish and allow for employing others, as well as, improving your standard of living. By all means, make a firm commitment to stop using drugs. You just might want to reconsider hiking....All the best to you!
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Posted By: NABA
Date Posted: 15 March 2015 at 11:14pm
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This is not a hobby,but I am suggesting you to learn 99 names of Allah, and whenever you watch any numbers revise these 99 names of Allah.because this is what I do, suppose I watch the number 7869-so I revise in my mind-78th name of Allah-Ya Muta Ali, 69th name of Allah-Ya Qadr, 86th name of Allah-Ya Muqsit, 7th name of Allah-Ya Mumin, 8th name of Allah-Ya Muhhaiyyim, 6th name of Allah-Ya Salaam,9th name of Allah-Ya Aziz, by the time you finished with this you may come across with other number.do exercise, if you have a ground near you go and run few rounds of it, in this way your blood circulation will improve and ur confidence will increase, each round remember Allah like,till first round vomplete say Astaghfirullah, till 2nd round gets completed-say SubhanAllah wa bihamdihi.the most important thing do dawah-read Quran and spread msg of islam, bookmark some pages of Quran sites in your phone and learn,there are countless non muslims blaming islam for violence so in reply give this verse to them, ch 5 v 32 of Quran-if you kill a human being unless for murder or for mischief in the land means as if you have killed whole humanity, if you save an innocent human being means as if you have saved whole humanity.
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