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is love between male and female is haram

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Topic: is love between male and female is haram
Posted By: sonia_islam
Subject: is love between male and female is haram
Date Posted: 12 November 2005 at 1:14am

Assalamualaykum,

I love a guy very truly but i know i wont get him because he is engaged,there were times were he promised he will marry me, but unfortunately he broke off with me, so i have stopped thinking about him, we use to have an affair before 1 year. I never contacted him after knowing that he is engaged, but right after 1 year he called me, and then we were in touch over phone for nearly 4 months just as friends, but then i have realised i shouldn't talk to him, i asked him not to call me anymore.

i have these feelings for him that i love him truly, my question to you is this haram, having feelings for a guy who is engaged

 



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salma



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Posted By: Abeer23
Date Posted: 12 November 2005 at 3:47pm

Well it's halal to marry a married man (be his 2nd wife) so yea it's halal to have feelings for an engaged guy (only feelings nothing physical).  I can't say it's very wise though.    You run the risk of getting hurt (emotionally).   There are plenty of single brothers out there.  Why be #2 when you can be #1  

Hope this helps sis.

Salaam



Posted By: sonia_islam
Date Posted: 12 November 2005 at 9:46pm

Assalamalaykum

thanks alot to help out, i have no intensions to marry him, it takes time to forget someone. who i once thought was the perfect man for me in my life.

I have asked many people this question but i wasn't satisfied at all, but your reply has solved all the doubts i had in my mind

thanks 



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salma


Posted By: Abeer23
Date Posted: 13 November 2005 at 10:33am

We're sisters in Islam, so there's no need to thank me.  I'm always glad to help.

Salaam




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