help needed please advise
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Topic: help needed please advise
Posted By: neo99
Subject: help needed please advise
Date Posted: 10 August 2013 at 5:43am
As Salaam Aleikum, I need some advice, I have been married for 8
years. My wife sleeps with me no more then two times a month if im lucky
however my sexual desire is a lot more as i feel i need sex daily. I
tried for 8 years to talk to her but she doesnt understand. Please
advise me of the options before i comit a sin as the urge for sex is too
strong.'
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Posted By: abuayisha
Date Posted: 10 August 2013 at 1:57pm
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A few suggestions: Work on communications, make sure your personal hygiene isn't an impediment, do more work around the house (cleaning, dishes, laundry) purchase gifts, allow for cuddling without always having to lead to sex, and develop a sustained playful foreplay prior to relations. Have a physical exam for your wife, perhaps relations are painful and her doctor can suggest ways to alleviate this condition. Dua! All the best, and know that in our religion the end does not justify the means, so be patient and practice fasting, which will help with your strong libido.
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