If he waits much longer
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Topic: If he waits much longer
Posted By: HalaHala2012
Subject: If he waits much longer
Date Posted: 27 May 2012 at 8:52pm
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Posted By: abuayisha
Date Posted: 28 May 2012 at 7:20am
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http://www.islamicity.com/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15036 - http://www.islamicity.com/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15036 My mistake....or as my kids would say; 'my bad'
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Posted By: HalaHala2012
Date Posted: 28 May 2012 at 8:48am
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Posted By: HalaHala2012
Date Posted: 28 May 2012 at 8:17pm
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Posted By: Pati
Date Posted: 29 May 2012 at 2:31pm
Hi dear, I am sorry for all that troubles. The intimate life is very important between all couples, and this problem is important, but after knowing all that informations I hope that you will be able to fix it and come back to the normal life. I just have a suggestion, but i don't know if it would be possible in case your husband is just starting new project. I realized that the problem of lot of couples is that they have not time for themselves: children, parents, grand parents, relatives, friends, always busy, too much work, too much stress... at the end of the day, who wants to waste "more energy" in...???? I would suggest you to take some days off, and go away from your living place for some days or weeks, just trying to relax. Turn off the phone, don't tell anyone where are you going to, and just enjoy each other, maybe discovering a new place that you have been wanting to visit for long time... make it as much special as you can, and try to please each other from morning until night, doing whatever you want. I don't know if you are able to do, but actually, it works, so just talk about it with your husband... or just try to organize it and help him to forget all the problems and relax, and maybe... who knows  Good luck, and I hope you can fix this situation as soon as possible, because it's not good to be like this. Kind regards, Patricia ------------- No God wants the killing, but the peace. The weapons are carried by people, not by religions. |
HalaHala2012 wrote:Posted By: Chrysalis
Date Posted: 29 May 2012 at 4:32pm
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Salam Alaikum sister, Do give this e-book a read: http://d1.islamhouse.com/data/en/ih_books/single/en_Like_A_Garment.pdf - http://d1.islamhouse.com/data/en/ih_books/single/en_Like_A_Garment.pdf Shaykh Yasir Qadhi discusses marital intimacy in his book. He also mentions an interesting point, there is no ONE approach to intimacy. Your husband should be able to satisfy you even if he lacks in certain departments. All he needs is a little sexual awareness and knowledge of the female anatomy. ------------- "O Lord, forgive me, my parents and Muslims in the Hereafter. O Lord, show mercy on them as they showed mercy to me when I was young." |
Posted By: HalaHala2012
Date Posted: 29 May 2012 at 7:55pm
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Posted By: HalaHala2012
Date Posted: 29 May 2012 at 8:07pm
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Posted By: HalaHala2012
Date Posted: 29 May 2012 at 8:15pm
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Posted By: HalaHala2012
Date Posted: 30 May 2012 at 4:37am
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Posted By: HalaHala2012
Date Posted: 05 June 2012 at 8:43pm
| Salam Alaikum dearest readers. I have 'edited' much of my previous postings after realizing that my thinking was all asque. (off) Personally,and I do not mind saying this, I am a woman going through 'the change of life' (menopause). Our hormones affect us so much (men have hormonal changes as well,so it's not just us ladies). We all react differently during hormonal changes...so let's not forget that dear readers. Always making dua for our loved ones (and ourselves) is so important. May Allah bless and keep you all.~~Hala |
Posted By: Chrysalis
Date Posted: 06 June 2012 at 5:55pm
Wa�laikum salaam Hala! We all err. Especially on the internet, when we feel nobody is watching us and knows our identity. I feel at times I am harsher online then I would be in person! Best way is to read and re-read our posts, and ask ourselves if we would be comfortable standing by our stance in real life, or if people knew our identity. ------------- "O Lord, forgive me, my parents and Muslims in the Hereafter. O Lord, show mercy on them as they showed mercy to me when I was young." |
Posted By: HalaHala2012
Date Posted: 07 June 2012 at 5:18am
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Posted By: HalaHala2012
Date Posted: 12 June 2012 at 8:28am
My love and I (my husband and I  ) went to see a doctor friend that knows us both very well recently. He was Very helpful to getting us to understand what we Both have been going through. My beloved husband and I are more kind to each other,more forgiving of each other,and more patient with each other now  . Alhamdulilah!  Our love is strong . We just got a little off track for a time there..but we never stopped loving each other..just really misunderstood each other during the last year  . Misunderstandings!  Boy!  Can they ever make life a huge challenge sometimes! Whew! 
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